We've been on 50:50 schedule (alternating weeks) since we separated.

She moved quite far from our matrimonial home. We've agreed our child will stay with me fulltime when he begins School soon.

It's a reverse role that I imagine for most Dads but wouldn't be surprised there are many in my shoes.

If she wants our kid for the weekend, is a fair trade she is responsible for pick up and drop off? Whether from house or somewhere closer? We are about 24 clicks away. And must I give all weekends away?

Canada based.

Recently filed for D certificate. Been trying to do it jointly but she would come up with excuses. We have a sep agreement in place but things would change with this new arrangement.

I volunteered to give some child support even though I didn't need to because I know she needs it and can hope she uses some of It on our kid.

At what point could I go to the courts and change the terms on parental schedule and maybe child support even considering child care benefits. Is it even possible to set it permanently? Doubt she'd give up her bs rental she wanted so bad. Should I do this after some history?

Truly - she's unstable. I don't want to get into it but I'm confident our child would do better in my care which she knows whether she admits it or not.