I’m a high earner where 1/3 of my incomes comes from bonuses. I have been in a nasty divorce and custody battle. In every turn the math, Gal and facts have been on my side and the judges look the other way and give my ex everything. From my experience, the courts just side with what she wants. My question is for people in these situations, why keep grinding at work? What kept you going making a ton but giving 70% away with decades by math of recovery to even live a ok life? I’m only option is to live with my parents as I’m 6k negative per month. With 15k just in support cost. She doesn’t work and won’t have incentive to with the amount of support. And will get the majority time with the kids. Which I care the most about getting more time. The new support system in WA Is screwed. Any advice would be huge about living with nothing, and future looking not good? Thanks all.