No choice

WorkingItOutSomeday · 2021-06-13T18:56:52+00:00

My first wife was a lesbian. She thought getting married would cure her. Sad. She is a beautiful person and we divorced amicably but it was still heartbreaking.

ctsmith76 · 2021-06-13T21:13:09+00:00

Welcome to the club, brother!

Was 44 and my wife just turned 39 last August when all of a sudden she decided to leave me. Found out a month later she was hooking up with a 20 year old “chick” (I use that term loosely) and guess what? They’re still together today.

Shit broke me, ngl. But you know what.. I’m better off without her, and she won’t be able to say the same cause I’m a good man, dammit. And so are you. It’s her loss.

Wish I had a better story for you.

dkblue1 · 2021-06-13T18:40:50+00:00

It sucks. Seems this situation is more common than people think. Was the marriage good otherwise?

Not even sure if it's better than being told "I love you but I'm not in love with you."

You're still young enough to make a new life for yourself, but I understand that you had one already planned.

What you should hope and strive for now is an amicable split if possible.

No_more_BPD_2020 · 2021-06-13T22:05:41+00:00

Therapy helped me a lot.

whothehellareyou209 · 2021-06-13T18:04:48+00:00

I'm 36 and she just turned 38. Been married for 16 years. I need positive stories.

Title	No choice
Author	whothehellareyou209
Upvotes	15
Comments	10
Date	June 13, 2021 6:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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