Think If You Were to Completely Ignore Attractiveness When Dealing With Women

2016-03-07T06:59:57+00:00

Being an asexual since birth has its perks.

Women to me are no different from hats & clothes that walk around. How i deal with them is utility. Are they neutral?Appear friendly but distant,aka stay out of their radar.That way they'll target someone else. Do they have connections that i can use? Bingo,be more friendly to her.Is she HR? Be VERY good friends with her,its like befriending the Bouncer at a bar to cover your ass incase shit happens.

Even if i'm MGTOW to the core,i still frequent the TRP sub more because of the useful things there that non-MGTOWs & MGTOWs can use(Uncle Vasey's Networking,Protopill's Networking & the 48laws of power are things we can use that doesn't necesearily connect to getting laid).

dalef77 · 2016-03-06T20:45:12+00:00

To expand upon this concept, if people only reproduced with others who possessed these good traits, humanity would advance as a whole over generations.

Today, many women are attracted to, and reproduce with men who are violent, non-caring, aloof, etc., because these men (Chad) represent excitement, mystery, spontaneity, and other emotional tingles.

Instead, if women chose more important and benevolent factors, these factors would gain more prevalence in the human population.

Our culture teaches us that when males choose a mate due to physical attractiveness, that men are being shallow. However, physical attractiveness probably has no correlation to intelligence, generosity, kindness, fairness, or other beneficial traits. That is, a beautiful person can possess positive or negative character traits with the same being the case with a non-physically attractive individual.

However, many women choose a mate with factors that are actually harmful to society as a whole and even them in particular. For example, most men are not violent. However, legitimate domestic violence is a problem today because many women specifically choose the "bad boys" over the "good boys," even though the men with the positive character traits would be better for them over the long term.

I know that I went off on a tangent. However, having companionship without marriage and without living together is known as "Living apart together" - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Living_apart_together . I find it a very interesting concept and if I were to consider becoming involved with a female over the long term, this is probably how I would like to conduct it.

2016-03-07T03:27:38+00:00

If they didn't have certain anatomical attributes, there'd be a bounty on 'em.

2016-03-07T16:57:11+00:00

Great point. I'm waiting for the asexuality pill : something that allows men to turn off their sexual urges at the biological level. That's when women will be truly fucked : the only thing they have, the Golden Vagina, will become utterly useless as a bargaining chip.

This is also why, if you see my comment history, I unabashed promote the use of prostitutes (while taking care to not catch STDs) : it's impossible to fight biology with motivational messages. Even porn, sex robots, et al are all just stop-gap solutions.

Men have always been the ones to take risk, innovate, work hard, try to understand this world. Whether it's philosophy or technology, there's a man there doing the job. The reproductive urge is a bane on a man's ability to mold his world and enjoy the expression of the most masculine trait, IMHO : a genuine curiosity about this world.

OldRoad · 2016-03-08T05:20:43+00:00

I'm already like this. After turning 40 my sex drive plummeted. What used to seem desirable just seems like hassle. I evaluate everyone the same now. Actually I just expect higher levels of annoyance when dealing with attractive people.

stunningandbrave · 2016-03-06T19:18:28+00:00

I do that all the time. An attractive woman does not appeal to me much, the first thing I ask myself when I meet one, is whether she has any brains at all, then if I find out she does, there could be some feeling of attraction. If I learn she's a spoiled bitch, boom, she is no more attractive than a leper and at that point I just want her to get away and stay away from me. Approach everyone you meet unbiased until you learn their nature.

Isaiah4verse1 · 2016-03-07T07:10:26+00:00

Too late.

Already do.

ishyman · 2016-03-07T12:24:18+00:00

Always deny the pussy pass. Trust me these pampered woman who get everything in life because of it, they come to me and I treat them like I treat everyone, it's a big shock to them.

soelc3 · 2016-03-07T18:19:56+00:00

If you ignore attractiveness and treat people solely based on their personality, you're simply replacing one biologically determined trait with another (by "biologically determined", I mean that both genetic and environmental influences are important). You mentioned that physical attractiveness is a trait that evolved in our ancestral environment, but so did our mental and emotional landscape and thus our personality, if you take evopsych seriously. "Kindness" isn't just some arbitrary trait, it's just as much of an evolved trait as our looks, and the reason it's around today in human populations is because it had adaptive value to our ancestors (e.g. being kind to family members helped spread their genes). So you need a better reason to favor personality over looks.

Title	Think If You Were to Completely Ignore Attractiveness When Dealing With Women
Author	OldRoad
Upvotes	19
Comments	20
Date	March 6, 2016 7:05 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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