I'm on mobile at the moment, but good God is it heartbreaking to realize my dad will always be a cuck. I mean the word literally.
Long story short, I watched my dad go from my crazy mom, to another crazy drunk, to the literal crippled alcoholic hes got parasitizing off him now.
The depths I have seen my father sink to, for absolute trash, is baffling.
I remember back when I still had a shred of respect for him, he let me rent his trailer he had. I had a newborn daughter at the time, was struggling hardcore to make it.
Well, out of the blue, he evicts my family out for some barfly. I wrote him a heartfelt letter because he avoided me after that. It basically stated I wouldn't be able to forgive this. That my newborn daughter, his grand baby should mean more than some drunk.
Nope, he went through with it. This was 7 years ago. Now I can't even think of him without considering him a pathetic weasel.
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Several things.
Your dad probably bonded closely with your mother, and when she acted like a typical female, he didn't have resources like mgtow or trp to make sense of what he experienced.
Instead he went right back to the mines for another round without taking enough time off, emotionally checked out, to understand wtf is really going on in the world and make a case for what he wished to do on the little slice of earth that he occupied.
Sad. I feel for him - but agree with the other posters. He is ignorant and foolish if he willingly chooses not to learn. The only solution for ignorant family is, sadly, to ignore or even ghost them until a rare opportunity arises where they may ask for your help or advice (and 9/10 times not take it, just make a mental note to listen "someday in the future").
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