Would Appreciate Hearing Your Opinion on Dating in the MeToo Era

DangZagnut · 2018-07-18T16:41:29+00:00

I double down on misogyny. It's had good results.

TXRudeboy · 2018-07-18T16:42:15+00:00

Fuck the MeToo movement in the ass.

Nothing has changed. Women still love the attention men give them, it’s what they crave.

Older_Miggy · 2018-07-18T17:29:59+00:00

My opinion is don't bother. I'd rather put my time, money and energy into pretty much anything else.

J_St0rm · 2018-07-18T17:39:53+00:00

Energy is spent better elsewhere. After my ex turned out to secretly have baby rabies (originally told me she was child free) and had her iud removed behind my back there’s no way I’m risking dating / sleeping with anyone until I find a doctor to snip me.

As i approach 30 sex seems to be loosing its appeal considering the potential consequences for a guy, especially one with guardianship of kids. Very few women want to date a guy that has responsibility for his parents other kids anyway so unless the sex was mind blowing it’s probably not worth the effort it takes to find someone who can look past that.

DesignRed · 2018-07-18T18:05:31+00:00

I still date occasionally and it's pretty easy, thanks to Tinder, to select out anyone who uses feminist language, and disregard them. I'm open with my thoughts on women and marriage(neither of which are worth investing in), and if I get disagreement or attitude, I cut them loose. It's not worth the hassle arguing with a loser with student debt who wants to tell me what she feels because of some bullshit she read in class.

I'm 31, and make good money and my hormones doesn't really control my actions anymore. I would much rather get really rich and retire early over wasting money on women. They're mostly just an cheap hobby for me at this point, where I dont spend more than a coffee or a drink or 2 on them every once in a while. No more bullshit dinner dates or courting women who aren't worth shit.

bigbangcat · 2018-07-18T18:10:00+00:00

Dating in the MeToo era is like playing the Russian roulette, IMHO.

Baldrbaldr · 2018-07-18T18:48:15+00:00

Don't date.

BlurDynamic · 2018-07-18T19:01:19+00:00

You can try but be so fucking careful. Everything you do and say is like taking one step in a minefield. I'd take screenshots of all the conversations over text and do keep some sort of evidence as insurance if you get accused of something you didn't do.

This all if you can find a woman who isn't a feminist and just a general bitch which is difficult already.

Docbear64 · 2018-07-18T19:53:41+00:00

I find it hard I was a blue pilled simp growing up, I then found TRP and got super successful with women but that was by being more aggressive with them so now I'm in a weird place how do you kiss a woman without asking when you know men go to jail for less? How do I do Kino or light touching when if it's too early in the night for doing that I won't be subject to a slight correction but I might ended up someones #Rape'd headline on twitter?

It makes dating much more risky and way less fun especially since women are kind of followers, before I could kiss a chick I was getting great vibes from with not a care in the world but with the idea of retroactive consent what feels good now can be " a terrible experience " tomorrow.

It takes away the fun and excitement of enjoying the vibe and just acting upon the chemistry because if you misread a woman ( which isn't difficult to do) all of a sudden you can be a monster for just trying to make a move on someone you find attractive and is out with you.

They seem less interested in establishing boundaries and more interested in condemning the male transgressor.

2018-07-18T19:30:04+00:00

My opinion and experience. Women are different in many aspects. That’s true. And women are the same in many other aspects. While wanting to be chased is flattering to all of them, some react with understanding others file a police report, if the wrong guy is doing the chasing, This isn’t the way men function. They aren’t mind readers. No matter how much women wish they would be.

Don’t forget, women are revengeful creatures. You give them a knife, they will use it. The most ridiculous cause can make them go crazy. I know that from personal experience. They are fickle and unaccountable. To make laws in their favour is like handing a loaded assault rifle ovet to a chimp.

Concerning learning:

Men don’t need to „learn“ how to approach women. That’s innate and not a big deal. It’s a natural behaviour.

Women need to learn how to react appropriately. They have no natural behaviour on that matter, because they are passive.

Not feeling offended or attacked constantly would be a great start. If a joke, a reference to their bodies or hairdonis hurting them so much that they have to run a Metoo campaign, they should consider not to be in places where men are or go in therapy. It’s hard for me to believe they are that frail, because I know how they behave towards each other. To me this is a scam. A revenge on men for being better in everything than them.

The female behaviour towards men has changed from nice and understanding friendship in the 1970s to open hostility now. Men are not women’s enemies. It’s deeply offensive for men how they behave. Men are the folks who are running the females world entirely. We deserve courtesy for that. Even respect. If you want to do something positive as a transgender, teach women about men. They really need it. We don’t.

ThePlague · 2018-07-18T18:41:07+00:00

I dislike being that guy, but the affect/effect confusion has been a pet peeve of mine for at least 30 years. Here's the rule that is correct 99% of the time: Affect is a verb, Effect is a noun.

These can be switched, but it's pretty rare and fairly specific usage: He effected a plan (as in implement). Using affect as a noun is pretty much an obsolete version of affectation: He took on the affect of not caring.

EmaDaCuz · 2018-07-18T19:48:05+00:00

37 y/o here, went my own way in January. Not against dating and casual relationships (not necessarily pump and dump), but don't want to go for anything serious. With regards to dating and meetups, I changed my attitude.

I don't initiate contact, I wait for a woman to approach me. I am charming (this is what I have been told by men and women, so not my personal opinion) and generally I have 2-3 women a night coming over to talk. I play safe, I don't disclose any personal information, sometimes I also make up stuff depending on how the conversation goes. I don't pay for drinks, if the ladies want my attention they better pamper me. I am the prize, they have to deserve me. Most of the time I get bored and leave. I ended up dating 3 women, because I liked their behaviour and their attitude, and they also don't care about being in a serious, fully committed relationship. Success rate is 100%, because I am the one who gives the "go ahead" and is in charge of deciding the fate of the meetup.

And I have to say, I like it. There is no pressure, I can take my time to understand the person I have in front of me, observe her body language, and focus on what she says. And if I go home alone, it is because I decided the lady was not worth my time. It is a very liberating experience.

Also, no way I will approach a female individual anymore. I have seen things in these months I would never imagine, with a few ladies calling security because men wanted to buy them a drink or asked them to dance.

Title	Would Appreciate Hearing Your Opinion on Dating in the MeToo Era
Author	bigbangcat
Upvotes	11
Comments	38
Date	July 18, 2018 4:38 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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