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[–]BrizzLatency79 points80 points81 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
most likely
[–]frick-me-in-the-butt68 points69 points70 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, that’s exactly what happened, and that’s what brought me here
[–]veasel7956 points57 points58 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Lol all of us ex husbands and boyfriends are no doubt ranted about as being “toxic “, or “abusive” or the latest buzz is “narcissistic”.
We are one big club 😆
[–]fxdbmgtow16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And, Whaamen aint in it~!
[–]DKS614 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We should make a forum to communicate our experiences on
[–]thomal461 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good call
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'd imagine 9 out of 10 ex-boyfriends suddenly become "abusive" once a girl is talking to her friends or to a guy she's interested in.
[–]beenthere7895 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This.. My experience too.. the women I've dated or had relationships with in the past 4 years, more like 99 out 100 say their previous bf's /husbands were abusive.. Alway told me this within first 3 dates too.. Often wondered how this can be or is " abusive" just a cool word now that can even mean he looked at her the wrong way or told her "no"... I guess all us men are assholes.. Gyow boys
[–]Dadeh2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
When I was dating, I would hear this cry for attention constantly from every woman.
That they had just barely escaped the hands of an alcoholic, abusive, drug addicted, womanizing, egotistical, cheating, blew his nose too hard around her man.
At first, I was very sympathetic (blue pill days) but slowly over time I just asked "Well what did you do to provoke it?" or "why did you choose to stay with him then?" or "If you're so unhappy then get the fuck out"
Now, I don't even talk to women unless I absolutely have to or for a pump and dump.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or, "are you just making shit up for sympathy and attention?"...
[–]Dadeh2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This too. You just get tired of the same NPC scripted lines to garner sympathy, attention, or dick.
[–]Dadeh1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hear this on a weekly basis from a disgruntled ex.
Other hits include "heartless", "cold", "lack of empathy", and the classic "psychopath"
[–]BertTheWelder0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex: “You care too much about other people. You spend too much time and money helping them. You need to put yourself first and make yourself a priority.”
Also my ex: “I’m sick and tired of your narcissism. You need to get therapy for it.”
Bitch, what?
[–]DentMan0636 points37 points38 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
For sure. I don't even want to know the lies my ex wife had to tell her family, who loves me, and her friends, who enabled her cheating, in order to save face. I heard rumors that she said I frequented strip clubs. Haven't been to one since I was like 21 (I am 34) and that was years before I even met her.
I guess that sounds better than "I'm an insatiable whore who doesn't want to work to build my marriage up and live the vows I swore to.
But hey, potato, potahto, amirite?
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
More like potato, poTHOTo
[–]DentMan067 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahaha that's straight gold.
[–]BertTheWelder0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
“Yeah, I cheated on him. But he went to strip clubs and looked at women without touching!”
[–]DentMan061 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Funny because I didn't. She said a LOT of bad things about me but while we were together you would of thought we were inseparable were you to have met us.
[–]Idioticaz18 points19 points20 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Have you ever heard a woman say anything along the lines of "maybe I should have treated him better", or admit to being the one causing issues in a relationship?
I haven't. Every woman I've ever met - claims the man was the asshole in one way or another.
I find it hard to believe that EVERY guy treats women like shit haha.
[–]AbsoluteSereniti5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex straight up told me her first boy friend of 5years -(treated her like a princess - best a women can be). - was too stupid and agreed to everything she said. He was apparently boring and got too comfortable with her as he wore old clothes around her. I knew where this was going to head when she told me that but for some reason I kept her still. Now I’ve dumped her and she’s broken and will use every opportunity to get me back no matter what I say. Fucking wahmen
[–]crispinosk814 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol that's me guys
[–]U-947 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I still run into my ex-gf's friends often when out bar hopping. The tall tales and legends they tell me about my own life are quite flattering. I don't want to tell them the boring truth that I never cheated on her.
[–]Samuraidweeb6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Me no care. She had a lot of stories about her x's and all of them were toxic not because she was a crazy bitch.
[–]HipsterNgariman4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then you put a second foot into the quicksand and in a blink of an eye you're into the patriarchy, toxic masculinity, most horrible partner she ever had. Don't think you'll not be another lie for the next Chad, you will be the dessert.
[–]xeronak4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely. I know the truth though.
[–]AbsoluteSereniti5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
It’s never their fault lmfao. You can clearly see it when you get into any argument with them. So I dumped my bitch of an ex last week because of the years/months of emotional abuse. I was straight up clear about it. She even admits she’s emotional and has a heated temper. Then when I went to breakup over it saying why it’s not going to work out and that I’ve been suffering far too long. She turns the whole thing around on me saying how I don’t spend time enough with her and cause of this she’s been spending time with this random guy. And how this is all my fault.
I was pretty much done there and then. Good riddance.
Few days later her (male) friend has a go at me. Says how I’m in the wrong here. How if I had a shred of humanity I would take her back and that I would “try harder” and spend more time.
Me: 9-5 job + 4hr commute. Breadwinner. Tired and knackered after work but still. Clean everything/room. Regularly do the dishes, clean up all the mess cause I have a bit of OCD when it comes to cleanliness.
Her: works part-time, probably like 2-3 days a week for 5hrs a day max. Sits around gaming all day. Turning into a balloon everyday - always saying she’s going to join the gym again but never.
[–]paranoidinfidel2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She turns the whole thing around on me
It doesn't matter how good or strong or supportive you are, they will change facts and reality to stroke their hamster so it validates their feelings no matter how erratic and ridiculous it is.
[–]TheTastelessBatman[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bruh good on dodging that bullet. If you would have wifed her those 5 to 10 hours of work would have gone to 0 before you could even spell divorce. Balloon 😂
[–]Cuntplainer1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
EJECT!
🅴🅹🅴🅲🆃!
𝔼𝕁𝔼ℂ𝕋!
[–]t0pcheeze3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t care
[–]AutisticCyborg3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
All my exes broke up with me I didn't break up with them
[–]AbsoluteSereniti4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I broke up with mine so who knows what kind of lies she’s been telling people..
[–]AutisticCyborg0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She's been telling them she dumped you even if you did end it she could never be seen as being dumped lol
[–]AbsoluteSereniti0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All her friends are attacking me for dumping her though...
[–]dalipro3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ugh... Some people’s writing is just vomit inducing...
[–]247spyz4life0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why are all memes in Ebonics?
[–]RealBiggly2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Especially if you have children.
[–]deep_in_my_mind2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I expect people to only make themselves look good after a break-up instead of saying what happened. Then again, sometimes it can be blurred lines of why people break up.
There'll always be bias.
[–]Cuntplainer2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That is exactly what is happening to me, except she doesn't know she's my ex - yet...
She leaves tomorrow for a trip home, hope to have papers and stuff all lined up for her return. Think things through, prepare, get a lawyer... etc.
Good luck bro. Sending positive vibes your way.
[–]itsforhismum2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She started the gaslighting way before it was over so i am sure she is
[–]theanchorman051 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is definitely true. O well I sleep good at night.
[–]GendhisKhan[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know mine did. I corrected the story for the people I care about, dgaf about the rest.
[–]LiveTheTruth3211 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They are not known for their honesty so definitely yes.
[–]Swagger_For_Days1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Got a guy at work who just had to do damage control because he found out his cheating, manipulative, meth abusing ex wife has been telling everyone she knows that he beat her regularly and cheated on her.
Don't get married
[–]tradal1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My ex love of my life did a gangbang porno and her producer surprised me with a dvd thinking I was her brother. She saw nothing wrong with doing a gangbang porno.
She tells anyone who listens that I beat and raped her. I never hit her. I never even choked her in sex. I never hurt her...
I guess I hurt her by not hurting her. I choked her by not choking her. I raped her fantasy by not raping her in person. I’m the bad guy.
[–]TheTastelessBatman[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man that's so sad. I'm so sorry to hear that.
[–]BrandinoKennedy0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea that sounds every women ever
[–]DarkOneoftheOutside0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like yeah, he did everything wrong then dumped her for no reason in spite of her being a perfect angel. Yeah, that sounds likely :-/
[–]ripp1020 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had a girl that asked me how to cancel a WhatsApp chat from her phone because the boyfriend "allegedly" was too obsessive in checking her. I asked if he was Soo terrible why are you with him, she responded that she can manage him by doing this. Sadly for her, she didn't know that I know her boyfriend. Turn out she cheated big time (like I suspected) and he was trying to find that out. What happened? I saved him, showed him the truth and he left her and to this day he is still my best friend.....
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
probably?
[–]Whirrlz0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep
[–]Zachjsrf0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Definitely, still fucked tho.
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