a women has ruined my self esteem?

Sir_manalot · 2019-11-10T23:20:08+00:00

It is the other way around. She isn't good enough for you.

She is just a slut who wanted to be used by men and discarded. She didn't want to be with you because you treated her well.

You are just smart, honorable, moral and responsibile, so you blame yourself for what happened. But think for a moment, did you do anything wrong?

No you did not, she did.

You may not feel this now, but do not be surprised by how much of a loser she is in ten or so years. You have yet to reach your peak and deserve better.

Keep pressing on and forget her. I didn't and it cost me a decade of my life. Learn from my mistake and reach your peak.

tablett379 · 2019-11-10T23:18:08+00:00

Congratulations on not raising another man's child. That ain't the first meetup she's done.

anongogogo · 2019-11-10T23:21:19+00:00

Nothing to be upset about. It was just your turn. Her hypergamy nature took over. Ghost her asap.

jotta54 · 2019-11-10T23:21:14+00:00

She only did that to make you feel bad, nothing to do with who or what you are. Best thing you can do is ignore it and her and move on.

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2019-11-10T23:21:01+00:00

Obviously not in her eyes. But that's not the point, the point is: who cares about her? You shouldn't. She isn't your problem anymore. Your only problem now is you, which isn't so much a problem so long as you don't sabotage yourself.

Stay away from dating and go make money.

Gibits · 2019-11-11T02:26:00+00:00

She’s a whore. Her actions prove it. Why get upset over a whore fucking another guy is just part of the job.

Did you want a whore for a wife? No, of course you didn’t. And now you are free of her. Good job!

ReverendCatch · 2019-11-10T23:34:17+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. See, culturally we’re supposed to be mad at the guy and want violence toward him. That’s just women spin logic though so they can have their cake and eat it too.

This is all on her. She is the offender here.

It’s not you, your dick, or your sexual prowess. Women use sex not just for pleasure, but for power.

Someone who does this kind if thing to a human being is a psychopath. It was just to make you suffer, she’s just toying with your emotions to get a cheap high.

She is nothing. She is less than refuse.

You are just fine. A normal, good person who got mind raped by an ape.

And I’m sorry for that, really, I am. I have been there myself.

selfproclaimedcypher · 2019-11-10T23:48:01+00:00

Letting a woman of that caliber affect your self esteem makes no sense bro. Has nothing to do with the way you fucked her. Remember this: Lois lane just gets done having Superman Sex, ideally the best in the world right? However, She’s rolling over and thinking, “hm, I wonder if there’s some better out there”....

Let it go, and be thankful it wasn’t worse. Wanna see worse? Find my epic true life tale that I wrote week ago, and you can see how bad it can get!

AWALT.

CastandRefused · 2019-11-11T00:58:47+00:00

Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Do not give them that power over you. Know your worth and do not ever develop a case of oneitis.

DeplorableToast · 2019-11-10T23:48:53+00:00

Your sexual performance is not the problem my friend!

Female nature (hypergamy) and the times we live in are the problem here.

There's literally nothing you could have done to prevent this from happening, it's what they do when given the opportunity! There's only one winning move! And that is NOT to play!

It hurts for now, but know it will fade. And once it does, u gotta make sure u remember the information u went looking for when u felt that shitty! Read it again, and realize that All Women Are Like That!

Embrace it for what it is, and use it to your benefit! After a while, life will settle down, u will be financially independent, not beholden to anyone that holds an emotional sword over your head 24/7, and you'll be ready to stroll along easy street.

Good luck! And congratulations with your renewed freedom!

DangZagnut · 2019-11-11T00:38:34+00:00

No you were a simp. You let her control the relationship and she left.

Don't do it again, but since you'll ignore that, control the relationship next time. Don't be the simp.

Your problem is you invested emotions. That's the rookie move.

franga10 · 2019-11-11T01:31:49+00:00

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EdwardSandchest · 2019-11-11T01:40:40+00:00

why are you blaming yourself for what SHE did?

horse3y3s · 2019-11-10T23:52:12+00:00

Do you practice meditation or reflect often about life?

She left you and found another guy to fuck in 1 week man...

Don't let her actions reflect on who you are. You can't control most things out of yourself. Stop thinking that you had the means to change what happened

plainnsimpleforever · 2019-11-11T00:10:39+00:00

You must understand that people are going to do the full spectrum of actions on you. Some are going to be positive but most will be negative. Keep the positive people and ditch the rest without a single thought. Life is more peaceful this way.

quickGunShoot · 2019-11-11T02:10:22+00:00

What kind of person does that? Think about it. You are better off without her. And you know it too. Only thing that’s bothering you is what image she has of you. And why give a shit about what she thinks? Right now you need your friend and family. Spend a lot of time with them, And try not to burden them with your self pity.

strongandhappy · 2019-11-11T02:50:16+00:00

A junkie comes up to you on the street asking for a hit of heroine. I imagine you don't carry such things and tell them to fuck off. They call you an asshole. Are you offended? Don't be sorry you can't give losers what they want.

FlintAustin · 2019-11-11T03:35:11+00:00

I was offered to use a married women as a cum dump while her husband worked his shift.

Goes to show that for a woman if she can't afford to travel at a man's dime, she will whore herself for entertainment.

See females as beneath you. Equality is for simps.

You were born a man. Without your investment a female is barren.

Never put anyone ... and never ever a female in your close emotional proximity. She will always stab you when given a chance to monkey branch.

Use the pain to grow a pair of balls. And never forget.

UserAgent99 · 2019-11-11T04:43:21+00:00

I’m sorry but check out his post history on his alt accounts /u/cruelpain and /u/stukintimez

He’s done this to himself.

Tidder90 · 2019-11-11T08:07:21+00:00

AWALT. It just takes a little experience with different girls to realise AWALT. Focus on you, that girl is in the past.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-11-11T11:28:28+00:00

Was i not good enough sexually?? did i not fuck her well enough?

It wouldn't matter. They will always think there is something better. They dont know how to be grateful for what they have. It's their nature to infect another host. This is not your fault.

GoodMan_Gone · 2019-11-11T13:34:47+00:00

Be careful though: when she's having had her brains banged out and is carrying foreign lifeforms (humanoid, microbial or probably both) she might come back crawling to you. Keep that memory behind your eyes: she just leaving an awesome guy to be gangbanged by a bunch of thugs. She's worth nothing anymore. Absolutely nothing. Best to sever all possible ties with her. Block number etc.

omg_ppl_are_stupid · 2019-11-11T18:45:52+00:00

Stop looking for womens validation!!!!!! This cannot be stressed enough!!! This is not because you didn't do something good enough or he was better or whatever the fuck goes through your head.... Stop seeking anyones validation!!!! Including family or friends. My friends don't seek to validate me! they seek to lift me up! STOP SEEKING VALIDATION!! It's not good for you, EVER!

a women has ruined my self esteem?

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Title	a women has ruined my self esteem?
Author	franga10
Upvotes	26
Comments	51
Date	November 10, 2019 11:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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