So, to give a bit of context, I was married, and I will soon divorced, it has come to light that through "Someone" who I believe to be my mentally and verbally abusive ex, I am being watched, especially on here it seems, so I assume they will probably see this unfortunately, but I need some information on how I can find evidence of this happening.

I've checked my google settings and her phone is still linked to my google account, potentially giving her some form of access.

I also searched my name and the first item was my YouTube account with a description that I know was not put there by myself as it was purposefully berating my mental state and intelligence, which is not something I would do.

The reason I'm wanting to do this is because my Ex is an actual sociopath, she's abusive, vindictive, and is no stranger to stalking people who she perceives as having wronged them, this much I know as she previously stalked someone who she was taking to court, and has done the same to others, even going so far as to effectively force me to perform some, frankly, heinous actions on her behalf(Which I am trying to make up for one day at a time).

She is not physically intimidating, but some of the things that she did while I was with her genuinely has me scared, she's pulled a knife on me before, and she has access to her own transport, I don't know if she knows where I live, but I have avoided letting her find out as best I can.

My local city has no protection for men in situations like this and I find myself at the end of my tether, she stole years of my life from me, and though not a strong person, she's a very crafty person and I am genuinely afraid of this person, for all I know I'm up at 2am and she could be sat in her car across the street, it wouldn't be the first time.

P.S.

I have made this post on a new account to hopefully avoid the eyes of undesirables who may threaten to take legal action as a result of the separation agreement stating not to discuss the matter of our divorce, though no names have been mentioned, and as before, nobody knows who I, my Family, or my Ex's family are ad have no way to identify anyone in regards to this.

I just want you to leave me alone, you stole 7-8 years of my life, if that wasn't enough for you, then I'll make you stop any way I can.