Overcoming Hatred

Smegma_Hitler_69 · 2020-02-16T10:47:30+00:00

Male chauvinism is the antidote to misogyny. I know it sounds counterintuitive at first, but I think part of your problem is that you still expect women to be on par with men. Well, they aren't, and if you expect them to be, you'll only be disappointed over and over again. Men are better than women in every possible way - even when it comes to things we typically say women are better at. It's so blatantly obvious, it shouldn't even be controversial for anyone to say so.

An angry person is a person who still clings onto something, a person who still hopes for something that just isn't. Hope and hate go hand in hand. Take for instance the guy who gets all riled up because traffic is bad during rush hour; That's because that guy actually, at some level, lives in the hope that one of these days, traffic will just magically disappear, and he'll suddenly have the road to himself at 8 o clock on a Monday morning. It's the disappointment that comes out of that misplaced hope which makes him mad over and over again.

So allow yourself to look down on women. They are lesser creatures compared to yourself, and there's no getting around that. We all wish it wasn't so, but so it is. And it's much better to come to terms with this reality, rather than to constantly push it away because you want to be a "good person". If you don't accept it, that can leave a void in your mind. And it's in this void where hate can seep in to replace what you refuse to acknowledge. It's better to look down on someone, than to hate them. And the more you understand, the harder it is to hate something or someone.

Speaker7 · 2020-02-16T09:03:00+00:00

Practice radical acceptance. You cannot change them and it would be a waste of your energy to try. It's a cognitive error to think that having an emotion reveals some essential truth of a situation. You hate women? Where'd did that feeling come from? It just popped up from the abyss, that's where. You rationalize it by saying "Women have done this to me, women do that, women are blah blah blah". None of it matters. Watch that emotion pop up, you acknowledge that it's there, and then you throw it back in the water without a care in the world, like an unwanted fish. It keeps coming back because you keep throwing your lure into the water, reel that line in and you won't care about the water anymore.

thisisanantfarm · 2020-02-16T08:25:41+00:00

Do you hate water for being wet?

There's a vast ocean of water out there that's wet. You can't spend all your time thinking about the wetness of the ocean, you should spend your time staying dry and focusing on your improving your own life. Water doesn't care what you think of it.

Batman_MGTOW · 2020-02-16T17:24:52+00:00

Self actualization. That is what we talk about all the time. The only way to be happy as a free man is to get your validation and your happiness from within yourself by having interesting hobbies, that is how you can get a life. Hobbies can be anything like: reading books, watching old movies and tv shows or anime, lifting weights, running, bicycling, skiing, hiking, climbing (rock, ice or indoors), swimming, playing a muscial instrument (guitar, piano, flute, violin), learning a new language (spanish, portugese, french, japanese, mandarin, russian and so on), hunting, shooting, martial arts, boxing, gaming, painting, drawing, writing, and so on.

There are many more examples of good hobbies but the key is to have many, to do many different things so you dont get bored, some people only think about the gym all the time and that is not good because it makes them a boring person. But if you have many different hobbies, then you will be a more well rounded person and your life will be more interesting and more fun and people will want to be around you and you will put yourself in places where you can easily meet new people.

As for women, you just have to learn to respect yourself. You do not need to stay away from them or hate them, all you need to do is learn how to always be the one in control. If you do what I said, if you start new hobbies and improve yourself in terms of physical appearance and finances, many women will suddenly be attracted to you, and then you will be able to choose the ones you like and use them for sex while living your life on your terms. You will be able to live life as a completely independent man while still getting laid when you want to, this is how you can keep a good balance in the way you view women, if you are fucking them, then you cannot hate them at the same time so that solves your issue and can also give you happiness and sexual satisfaction. I would only recommend monk mode to those who have done the pump and dump thing for a long time and now want to move on from it. It is not that sex is essential to survive but it is a big part of the human experience.

To not bluepill yourself, you have to realize that as a mgtow, you can get a casual hookup or even start a relationship very easily if you are a high value man and because of that you have more power than the blue pilled man. And once you discover that power and its many benefits, you will never want to give it up for the simp life.

Mgtow is only the belief that getting married, having kids or cohabitating with a woman would strip us of our human rights, our freedom, our financial power and our happiness. Once you believe that and have the facts and the proof, then you can never go back to the blue pill because the blue pill is the opposite of that belief. A mgtow could enter a relationship and he would be fine because he would know how to avoid the traps that women would lay out for him, the relationship would end when the woman would try to get him to settle down, the man would refuse to even cohabitate and that would end the relationship.

To not hate women, it is simple, you have to realize that they are different from us, they think differently and they are more emotional than logical. Their actions are more true than their words but that is not always their intention. You have to understand and accept female nature and recognize the fact that even though every human being differs in some way, all women have many things in common because they are all women, because they are part of the same gender. And that is why we say AWALT, maybe not all women cheat the same way but all women have a very high likelihood of cheating on you.

Once you understand women, you can learn to get what you want from them by giving them what they want, not what they say they want but what they really want. Or you can also act like them and hang the possibility of a reward in front of them to make them believe they are winning, only to make them give you what you wanted and then you give them nothing. In the end, its really just a trade, men want sex and women want money, and just like in any trade, you can either get a fair deal, get scammed or scam the other person. The trick is to learn to scam her by showing her that you are a high value man and then pretending that you are looking for more than just sex and when she gives you sex, you leave and disappear. Her goal is to get money without giving sex, your goal should be to get sex without giving money.

And you dont need to be rich for women to see you in this way. You could be a student in college with a minimum wage job and if you take care of yourself, women will still want you for your financial support, they will try to get you in a relationship, so they can get your attention, your validation and your money and resources. That is how ugly and poor men end up in relationships, because at the moment, they are the best deal that the woman can get, and that is why she does not hesitate when she gets a chance to cheat on them, because she does not respect them, they are only disposable utilities in her eyes. But, it does not mean that she doesnt love them, she loves them but her love is the same that she has for an object like her car, her computer or her television, she loves it when it works but when it doesnt anymore, then she doesnt hesitate to get rid of it. The only way a woman would be sad after a breakup is if she didnt initiate it herself, if she was happy enjoying her object when the object got a mind of its own and decided to leave. Sometimes women can get so possessive that they will not let you leave because they believe that they own you because they see you as an object. In that case, the only way to leave is to make her unattracted to you so she initiates the breakup.

zennacko · 2020-02-16T09:53:55+00:00

Remember the true opposite of love is indifference. Like, not even caring whether that person, group, species exist or not. That's me and mosquitoes. Women? I'm aware they exist but if I could have an Apartheid state with true off-limits areas/cities/states by gender I'd be better off, but society is driving itself to that point so it's just a matter of time.

carbonblob · 2020-02-16T21:28:47+00:00

If women cause anger and anxiety within you, that's a character flaw.

Going your own way means exactly that. Redirect your energy into something productive instead of destructive.

You should be able to transcend anything that they do. If they get under your skin, then they are being effective.

Raise your shield, and let their tactics bounce right off of it.

ckitano88 · 2020-02-16T08:34:04+00:00

Rage and anger is a mindset.

You may not agree with someone or want to be with that type of person.

Think about it this way, you may want to own a gun, do you give a fuck what anti gun people think and do? No unless it effects you directly. Then you stand up and fight back.

Same with women, as long as what they do doesnt encroach your life, live and let live

lone_nordic_wolf · 2020-02-16T08:34:34+00:00

Consider accepting the nature without condoning behavior. Be thankful of your awareness, make decisions to better your life, and focus on your own emotional peace.

You don’t blame a great white shark for killing a seal... you acknowledge the nature and stay out of the water. Doesn’t make sense to be angry with it, because it doesn’t care.

Alinitysdog · 2020-02-16T12:38:43+00:00

You gotta accept the reality, fear is one the primary sources of anger. A women's capability to absolutely destroy a person's life unparalleled and if you're not careful you will allow her to that's for sure.

Understand you can only save the men who are salvageable but understand that there are men who are beyond saving. The more we get people unplugged the better.

Chakra_Devourer · 2020-02-16T20:18:05+00:00

We point out the shit that they do so we can laugh at it on this sub.

If life gives you lemon, then make lemonade out of it.

veganhitler · 2020-02-16T11:29:15+00:00

Forgive your mother. You have your mothers nature. Mothers have a tendency to raise weak sons full of hate and anger because all women have anger and hatred. Unless they respected their fathers and obeyed their husbands. https://youtu.be/sXyUtUP36Vo

Red_Pill_Wolf · 2020-02-16T14:58:35+00:00

I have 2 sisters...I know them about as well as a person can know them (without being in a relationship with them). Neither of these women I would describe as being "evil" and "vile" they are more along the lines of "fat" "stupid" "horrible with finances" and "demanding"...But certainly does not = Evil.

OP tell us about the women in your family. What is your mother like? How about aunts and female cousins? Surely they all are not evil and vile people to you?

Title	Overcoming Hatred
Author	Smegma_Hitler_69
Upvotes	33
Comments	26
Date	February 16, 2020 8:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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