I thought it would be fun if men explained how women tried to pin paternity on them. I'll give my own story since, hey, it's a fun one.

It was back in 2014. I was leaving grad school and reentering the work force, starting to make money again. There was once chica I was dating at the time. She had a fantasy of being my personal stripper so after the bars, she would grind me for a few hours while we drank more. It was fun for me.. my wife had died in 2008 and it was just fun to have a woman around again. I was MGTOW at the time and I knew not to actually hit it, so I didn't, but she was fun and sometimes, she was really trying to get me inside of her. Like, I could tell... extra drinks, more passionate kisses, she knew how to say the right words to me.....etc. It was good.

I moved out to CA and couldn't maintain the relationship. Then, I moved to another state, won't list it here, and I got a telephone call from my home state from some sort of government services organization. They were looking for my real last name, place of employment, salary..,..etc. I was like, oh hell to the naw! Made a new gmail account with google phone on a new user account on my computer, went to Starbucks to use their WiFi, and I called her up as she was the only person whom I knew from the area.

Well what happened?? Yeah, this was all related to her. So, she was sleeping with "Tyrone" while she was grinding me. She goal was to become pregnant with his kid, have me hit it a few times with her, say I'm the father, and then entrap me into marriage or have me pay child support to her. "Tyrone" got busted for drug sales and was sent to jail so she didn't want to admit to the gov that he was the father so since she still had my number, she gave that to the state and said that I was the father. That's why the state was calling me.

I was like.... how could you do this to me? You knew my wife died.... you knew that you were healing me over this..... really? She was really angry that I wouldn't hit it and I was like no.... I'm not stupid... I thought something was wrong so I was smart about it. Then I was like, you got 2 baby daddies from 2 different Black men (FWIW, I'm also Black and she's White), your family is gonna think you a thot and you will be on welfare forever, you are only 24 years old. Are you nuts? Fortunately, not only was I MGTOW, I didn't tell her my real last name. Totally dodged that bullet. Then I was like girl, you were actually lowering my defenses, maybe I would only have lasted another 2 months and she would have gotten me.... was it really worth it? Honestly?

MGTOW saved me. I would have loved to have banged the hell out of her but I knew better. I still look back and I'm like, really? But you can't change a thot. That's why it's so hard (Pun lol) for me. Logically, I look at it like perfect situation. She heals me from the death of my wife, I make a family with her.... like... this looks like a good story. I'm older and can provide for her, she gets a Black father for her first child so it appears that I'm the father in public... perfect. A wife who would drink, grind on me and then let me hit it while erasing my pain for losing my wife... are you kidding me? But... a thot is a thot..... you can't wife a 'ho. She would have found another "Tyrone" and made kids with him while giving me just enough so that I pay for everything and she wouldn't need to work and then divorce rape.

Hung up the phone and changed my number. Anyone else got stories?