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[–]user_miki12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I think you are not aware or really felt anything bad happening to you from women.So it is difficult to empathize with people who did.You don't even understand.But we do including understanding you.
And we are building each other up after we were broken into many pieces.
[+]daykeys[S] -8 points-7 points-6 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
not true. I have been really hurt and stolen from. Almost every relationship I have had has been a deeply painful distraction. I do get the feeling of being broken. But it doesn’t mean I generalize and hate all women. Look, I love this community and what it has taught me, so much so that I no longer feel alone. But do you not agree that this sub is full of hate?
[–]YesYesYesVeryGood5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To me, not really. I've been discriminated against before. I've been hated. I don't get that from MGTOW. I do meet some posts I disagree with, but it's a difference in ideologies, not hate. What I really like about MGTOW that is has been confirmed time and time again that it is fine with people here to disagree. It's not a cult where everyone reads from the same rules. MGTOWs have different approaches. Some are religious, some are in torment, some are philosophical, etc. There is no one path.
I get what you are saying about the subreddit being very strong on their opinions. It does slant to a more introverted mindset. One of the main themes is to focus on yourself, which can come off as conceited. It took me two years to accept that it is okay for me to stand my ground and preserve myself instead of wearing myself away for others which leaves me damaged.
I use to think that the message was "damn me for thinking of myself first." Over time, I learned that "my life is worth defending, especially if I am defending myself." MGTOW woke me up to how much others are offended when you stand up for yourself, and not to give into their shaming or guilting when you protect yourself. Also, it's taught me that you can never seek validation from others permanently. That can only come from yourself.
Your past relationships may have been painful, and they teach valuable lessons, but they do not define who you are. Your actions do. If you want to change, you have to make the change. Common mistake I see is that guys go out and find another woman and repeat the cycle again. I love that MGTOW encourages men to get out of the dating loop and try working on their health, finances, careers, friendships, families, hobbies, etc. Life is way more than chasing pussy or finding a wife.
I found that from MGTOW, I take what I am interested in. Personally, I want to grow in my career, wealth, and health. I have found that here. As for what others post, I personally steer away from the idea of policing what others post. If you like certain type of posts, you need to create the content and also promote it when it comes onto the subreddit.
[–]user_miki3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
No you don't.Believe me, you don't.You still don't understand.There were people just like you ,said the same like you and came back after 6 months -1 year and said to us.
-You guys you were right all the time.I did not get at that time.Now I do.
Take your time play a little longer with your life and come back.At this moment if is useless convincing you of anything.You are too young and inexperienced.
[–]rocko200021 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We don't hate. But we are very critical of women and society in general. Me personally I'll still praise the woman who I think deserves it. Heck, I'll even praise sluts like Pamela Anderson for still being able to marry some dumb rich simp only to divorce him right away.
And I'll say, it's this use of the word "hate" that amuses me. Ironically, it makes you even more close minded than us simply because you can't process through your skull that people can criticize, sometimes harshly, but still be able to practice a degree of "tolerance".
And you don't think women do the same amounts of "hate" towards us among themselves? You think they go on girls night out just for spa sessions and pina coladas?This is basically an extension of old school pubs and taverns where men would "hate" on their old ladies and daughters over a cigarette and a cold beer. Clearly you can't see this because it doesn't seem that you've hung out with that many men.
[–]Wide-Brick7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sounds like an FDS member to me.
I CONSISTENTLY see uplifting posts on various subjects not pertaining to females. Finances, health, career.
FDS is THAT 👉 way
[–]daykeys[S] -5 points-4 points-3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You know, that is a good point. FDS is way more full of hate that this sub.
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[–]Wide-Brick3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
[–]Beyondthet6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I love everyone and I love myself the most
Take that cookie cutter hippy bullshit somewhere else. "I love everyone." How cliche lol.
[–]daykeys[S] -5 points-4 points-3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
proving my point with your comment
[–]rocko200022 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll agree with the commenter above. I'm always skeptical of the "I love everyone crowd" because at some point they go into hate mode if they encounter something or someone they don't like. For instance the more Evangelical Christians and of course, Antifa.
[–]mongolian_usa6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gatekeep much!
[–]tatoler3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
why are you showing others this sub ? Need validation ? Daddy didn't love you ?
People just state facts here. Not the sub"s fault if you take offense from facts. There's a "building each other up" aspect to it as well but its not a women's knitting group. We need to have discussions as men too. It can't be just "you go girl" all the damn time.
[–]daykeys[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Shut up with the daddy shit dude. Not showing off to anyone. I’m trying to be constructive. There are a lot of building up posts here but I def have been embarrassed by some of the hateful generalizations that are posted and make their way to the top.
[–]Hateussoyboys3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Now, now, now,
who is full of hate?
[–]NorthPassion33 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yawn
[–]The_2nd_Bob2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men going there own way, means men choosing different paths, some you may not approve or agree with.
[–]F-F-FIREBALL2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, you don't have to be here, nor do you have to go your own way. If you think a group doesn't align with your values it is not the duty of said group to prove you wrong. It's up to you to decide whether or not you want to continue frequenting that place.
[–]APHAbaghodler1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This post has female sounding language inside of it.. me thinks Trojan Horse..
[–]justaguy5290 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I'm going my own way but when I try to bring people along for the journey you guys don't really make appetizing content, so could you guys please change so I can go my own way with a larger group of people"
[–]ThrowawayGYOW0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This sub isn't for you. Good luck...
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