Or else you will have to deal with some stupid bullshit more likely than not. I sure am. Married the girl I fell in love with, she started to change in that marriage. Found out she has BPD (didn't even know wtf that was before). Tried to work things out over the years but to no avail. Decided to pull the plug on this marriage and went to a lawyer. Guess what she does? She files a domestic violence restraining order against me and also for 100% protective custody of our daughter. That fucking bitch... She disappeared with our daughter as well for 6 fucking long weeks. So get this... In the report, that was DENIED, she claimed some of the following as "abuse".

"Despite the heat, husband refused to give me a ride to get groceries or go to work (which was a 15min walk)"

"Husband has ordered me to take my bike to work, as he no longer wanted to drive me (8 min by bike) I had a flat tire and when I asked him for help he said, figure it out on your own"

"I took our daughter to a nearby playground. We were there for a couple of hours and when I got home, husband was furious at me. He called me a idiot and told me I was a terrible mother. (For context, she left with our daughter in 100 degree weather, daughter is two years old and came home looking like she was about to have a heat stroke. My wife blocked my number. I was concerned as to where the hell my daughter was in this heat."

Anyway, I'm ranting. Just wanted to share some of the dumb shit I'm dealing with.