today i found a post on r/noahgettheboat about a woman who was in college class and was having her thigh felt by a guy in an isolated position in the class. she proceeded to smile and to tell him to go further even though she was uncomfortable. when he reached her private parts she "sneezed and let out her period blood" then complaining and getting him expelled from the college. i said in a comment that i felt what he did was wrong and she was wrong too by encouraging him by showing consent and then acussing him of assault. my main argument was that she should have caused a commotion and gone to admins but she exacerbated the problem by doing something tantamount to a lie and making his actions much worse (because he thought he had consent) than they were and getting him a punishment that will forever live with him and destroy his future prospects and a chance at redemption. got heavily downvoted and a comment saying i was defending sexual assault...