Am I wrong for this?

bufedad · 2020-10-12T02:56:07+00:00

No. Don't talk to her anymore.

It will only get worse

HeWhoIsBearded · 2020-10-12T03:12:47+00:00

If she isn't going to take your wellbeing seriously then you're better off not engaging.

I hope you're feeling better as soon as possible, my friend.

Jepekula · 2020-10-12T03:20:51+00:00

Yeah, nope the fuck out.

a-man-from-earth · 2020-10-12T03:23:49+00:00

She made it abundantly clear she's not serious about you.

cld8 · 2020-10-12T11:17:59+00:00

Not at all. If she is behaving like that right now, she isn't worth your time.

newhopefortarget · 2020-10-12T06:59:24+00:00

Lol wut? Sure you can do whatever you want, but in your depressive state, how can you be sure what you want? No, perception is not reality. Go take your lived experience shit to the Social Marxists down the hall.

My advice? Don't talk about this shit with women about it ever, or if you do on rare occasions, do it non nonchalantly, as if it's just something that bugs you. It's merely a minor annoyance.

It seems like she wants to have sex with you, and you're not in the mood. Just tell her to "chill bitch", and you'll think about it.

ClassyFoxx · 2020-10-12T09:55:33+00:00

I know this post is a bit late now and in a way I have sort of a problem with my girlfriend, shes a really nice person and I thi k I love her it's long distance, she cheated on me once but we got back together and shes a big fan of old school rock like kiss and stuff and she constantly talks about how she would want them to "rail" her and to fuck them, and recently I said something and she made it out like I was attacking her like of the band when I dont mind it myself and I explained myself clearly what I meant she just kept going on the same thing over and over, its put me in a depressive state because I actually DO feel like I'm in the wrong, people say I'm a naturally sweet guy, I'll carry stuff for my friends (that are mostly girls) and even give them piggy backs if their feet hurt from walking, they have helped me a bit so if you have anyone I'd encourage to do the same, just choose wisely my best friends girlfriend hates me now because I was getting comforted by them. Sorry for the length

PocketGamerWamer · 2020-10-12T11:55:13+00:00

Leave her now, she doesn’t care about you as a person or what you’re going through obviously

Neko404 · 2020-10-12T15:07:47+00:00

Sounds terribly immature of her. She miiight grow out of it someday but I wouldn't suggest sticking through it till she does. It could just as easily be that she just doesn't care and is just using you and could just keep using and abusing you.

taneronx · 2020-10-12T17:33:17+00:00

Keep her as a fwb for non emotional sexual. Treat her like a fucktoy until you find someone that is partner material.

Anaedrais · 2020-10-12T04:40:22+00:00

No you are completely in the right for not talking to her anymore, I'm a trans woman and that kind of behavior from her is despicable, she sounds like a really subpar person if she immediately made it about herself, it's not hard to admit such a thing as a guy since for some stupid reason you get laughed at or mocked for showing weakness. I hope you feel better sooner rather then later, try to find something to laugh about instead of dwelling on this.

impressivepineapple · 2020-10-13T18:47:53+00:00

Imagine this scenario with the genders reversed. A girl is talking to a guy, opens up to him about something difficult, and he tells her he doesn't believe her and sends a dick pic. This is what this woman just did to you. Of course she's wrong!

Ferretninja007 · 2020-10-13T23:23:01+00:00

Is this the first time or have there been multiple incidents?

Title	Am I wrong for this?
Author	-_Baphomet_-
Upvotes	34
Comments	21
Date	October 12, 2020 2:36 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/j9iqdk/am_i_wrong_for_this/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/am-i-wrong-for-this.842471 https://theredarchive.com/post/842471

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