Hi there everyone, created a burner account to seek some advice. My boyfriend of 3 years and I are going through a rough patch at the moment. We did long distance for a year and are now back together but now we’re dealing with all the baggage from before and I’m not certain what to do. While we visited during our long distance he lied to me very badly one (wasn’t cheating or anything) but he came with me to gym and went to the “bathroom” and came back high as he had planned to meet a friend a get high during our time together. He has lied to me several times after that despite us having many conversations about it and he also is chronically late for the plans we make or just cancels them completely. I also find I pay for the majority of dates, etc (60/40 split). Most recently, my boyfriend lied to me thrice about going to hooters- which I take seriously despite popular opinion that it is okay. As well as the fact that he lied to me.

Obviously he just moved to the same state to be with me so I’m in a difficult situation

What do I do ?

Thanks