My family lives in Miami and I am visiting for 3 weeks.

I met a 9/10 and her friend at the bodega at the bottom of my dads building. She is 33, I am 28, and she lives in the building next door (with her friend).

I chatted her up by asking them "if they were Israeli," made some conversation about why I thought they were, and quickly got her number on Friday before a dinner. Texted on Saturday if she wanted to go to the soho house beach with me, which she obliged.

We were super comfortable with one another, and within 2 hours, after initial protest, my hand was rubbing up and down her thigh / body while we were laying at the beach.

At the beach she tells me she isn't going to fuck me today and that now that she is older isn't "spreading eagle" for any guys on first dates. Additionally, she said she is also "too busy and barely makes time for people since she is an aspiring tiktoker." After frequenting this sub enough, I knew in the back of my head the only reason she even brought sex up with me was that she was already thinking about fucking me. To which i responded, "who says I wanted to have sex with you?" She said I was such a douche, and we carried on.

Fast forward 3 hours, we are at the hot tub at my building at 9pm with a bottle of wine. She is riding on top of me making out while I was rubbing her kitty. To which again she says, I'm not fucking you tonight and which I provided the same response. (My logistics were fucked and my entire family was home that night.)

I drop her off at her building next door to mine, and we make out once more saying goodnight.

Next morning, I text her asking her if she wants to grab drinks/dinner I 2 days since I am leaving Miami at the end of the weekend.

She responds 9 hours later with "this week is crazy busy I don't think I can 😫😫"

What did I do wrong? Or should I just take this experience for what this was, a fun time with a hot chick in Miami?

Stats: 5'9, kinda jacked, working in private equity