Foreword:

I will be laying out the full interaction leading to the successful hookup just for the documentation so people can take any interesting points. I was using a gradual approach with this one, kind of escalating slowly, while never asking for anything. I thought this would be interesting because this was a case that she was putting some resistance, and how I overcame it. I will also be pointing out the exact moment when her brain started malfunctioning before deciding, that yes, she wanted to fuck me.

Main post:

I was at an outdoorsy summer club with a friend, drinking beer and enjoying myself. I live in a city with a lot of tourists. Two girls come near us because there is no table. They dance among themselves while having quite an open body language. One of the is a 3-4 and the other a 7-8. I keep dancing and the 3 is trying to lock eyes but I ignore her. She goes and approaches a thirsty guy who is giving her attention.

I look at her friend, bump her on the elbow and start laughing, kind of conveying that her friend is drunk. She makes a no-no gesture with her hand kind of disapproving me mocking her friend but then starts laughing uncontrollably herself. I laugh it out and continue dancing(not with her). She comes to my ear and asks me "Are you from this country, the country that we currently are". I say yes, but do not ask her anything back. She comes close to me again and asks for my name, I tell her and ask for hers. We start talking and the music goes down because the club is closing.

She's fun and I am talking about whatever comes to my mind. I make jokes, hold her hand occasionally, touch her arm. I ask her about the tattoo while touching it she asks about my necklace, I make some funny gestures like I am sparring with her when she says something bad. Basically I am having fun, never asking for anything. She is very responsive and laughing throughout the whole conversation.

I propose that we go to a more quiet place, to have another beer. The 4 of us, me, my friend the 7 and the 3(the 3 is now talking with my friend because her friend is talking with me) go to another spot. There, it is all touchy feely. At one point she touches my knee to make me stop fidgeting with it. I tell her "What are you doing, are you harassing me? I am calling the police". She laughs and makes a gesture like she wants to hit me, I catch her hands and pull her closer for a kiss. She resists.

I talk a bit more, and in the middle of talking about something unrelated, I open my arms and say hug me, I want to feel you. Our two other friends start laughing, but she leans in and hugs me. I kiss her slightly on the neck.

I say, "Let's go for a walk". She says no. Then we talk a bit more, some more touching and bantering. I say again "Let me drive you somewhere." and she says "No" but stands up and catches my hand and leads me outside. We are in the stairs of this new venue, making ready to leave. We are face to face, I lean in to kiss her, she turns her head and resists.

I lean to kiss her again, we kiss. Then I say let's go. And she literally starts mumbling words. She says half of them in her native language and half of them in English:

I know, I want to fuck. But I do not want to fuck. *native language gibberish* I know what you will do to me, kisses me. Talks again: "I have my love in my home country" *native language gibberish* I like you, but no I do not want to do this. My god. This is bad. Touches my lips. I like you. Rolls her eyes. *native language gibberish* My love is waiting for me" Fuck this.

During all this, I stand unfazed, kiss her again, french, and say "Let's go, I'll take you somewhere nice" . She just gives in and follows my lead to my car. I take her somewhere and close her out, very hot stuff.

The thing that struck me the most from this one-night stand was the fact that I could see it in real-time her brain was malfunctioning and trying to make sense of the fact that she wanted to fuck me but she had her boyfriend at home and also her friend was there in the table knowing what she was about to do. You could literally see the micro-expressions on her face, her trying to justify what her body was telling her to do.