Gentleman,

After doing a great deal of reading on this forum, I thought it beneficial to present evidence to support what is espoused here.

Link to W4M Craigslist forum near my area.

Jacksonville, NC is a city close to where I live. It is known for nothing more than being the home to Marine Corps Base Camp Lejeune.

Having lived here, departed, and returned multiple times, it is blatantly obvious that this is a place that runs rampant with Blue Pill ideology, and women who seek to take advantage of it.

If you read through a few of those personal ads (and if you search Jacksonville on any other dating site), you will find perfect examples of women's hypergamy, and true motives in seeking out men.

This place is often the first duty station for many new Marine recruits - 18-22 years old, and relatively inexperienced with women and dating. The women here either arrived voluntarily to find a "military man," or were brought her with a husband/boyfriend who proceeded to end the relationship - stranding them here. A third group of women are those who are currently in relationships, but are looking to branch swing/improve their station.

As you can see in many of those posts, women are straight-up requesting marriage after a short/no relationship, and are advertising their desire to immediately have a child. You'll also notice how many women state outright that they already have a child and are looking for men who are willing to take on that responsibility ("My child is my life, and if you can't accept that, you can't have me.").

Their motivation behind this is obvious: men in the military can provide excellent benefits for their families, not to mention a steady paycheck. Love is not a requirement - even liking each other is not a requirement. Their objective is to trade sex for marriage (benefits), and I can say (based upon conversations I've had with many of these men over 10 years), the sex ends as soon as the documentation is signed.

Unfortunately, as stated, many of these men are inexperienced and are willing to do whatever it takes to get laid. This leads to unwanted children, unhappy marriages, and a great deal of divorce.

I might also add that this is an excellent deal for women (especially if they have a child) as the military automatically takes half of the salary of the divorced man and gives child support/alimony/benefits to their ex-wives and progeny after divorce. Furthermore, should the man accumulate enough years in the service to retire with a pension, half of his pension will be taken from him and given to his wife for the rest of her life.

Communities of women like this exist at most major military installations - especially those with new recruits. The colloquial term for them here is "tag-chasers."

You'll also notice that many women advertise themselves as "not looking for benefits," and "having their own lives/money/house." Unfortunately this is all a ruse, to which I can personally attest, having taken many of those women out on first and second dates. Keep in mind - if she is writing/saying things like those above, contrary to what her words say, these topics are DEFINITELY on her mind. She hopes to assuage any thoughts you may have of her ulterior motives by assuring you the fringe benefits are "not" what she is interested in. In reality, the fringe benefits are ALL she is interested in.

This is further exemplified in my own experience - if I tell a woman I am not military, she will usually lose all interest. If I tell a woman I am in the military and give her a rank, she will try even harder to maintain my affection (this is especially true if I identify myself as a commissioned officer, as they receive much better pay and housing benefits than enlisted men).

In an effort to more deeply understand their psyche, I responded to some of these personal ads - from Craigslist and other dating services - to women in this area. My two most commonly received questions were:

"How much money do you make/what is your rank?"

"Are you ok with my child/two/three/children?"

Though I will add, the second question was usually phrased in the form of a demand. E.g. "You must be ok with my children."

I have personally found the knowledge on this forum to be very accurate, despite it's difficult nature. Though one community (Jacksonville) cannot be representative of all the world's women, I can say that based upon my experience, this community of women is only different from others in that the women here are much more blatant about what they want - and they can get away with that due to the inexperience/blue-pill nature of the men.

Application

Read through some of the posts in the link related above, and then think back to your own relationships: You have been asked similar questions - though perhaps not until a second or third date - and perhaps wrapped in flowery language.

When were you asked how much money you made?

When were you asked what kind of benefits you received?

When were demands made of you? Because if you aren't ok with her demands, you're "not good enough for me?"

The point remains: love is not a woman's first objective. If she's not fucking you within a few days of meeting, she's estimating whether or not you can provide (enough) for her.

And if she is fucking you within a few days of meeting, chances are you have demonstrated high enough SMV that she knows you can give her what she wants.

Regardless: do NOT get married. Do NOT unwittingly produce children. Do NOT take any interest in used goods, aside from using it further. If this post serves no other purpose, at least let it confirm to you that the theory written here couldn't be more true.