So, long story short, I'm trying to get with a girl on the side but she has been flaking on me. Seems to just want attention since she got turned down by this guy that she had the hots for. Called her out for being flakey yesterday and she eventually apologized (all on text), and said she would make it up to me, but she finishes that text with "you know I won't have sex with you, right?"

Did she put that in the text just to make herself feel better? As in, women's logic: if I say that then it's true, even if I end up having sex with him, I am still not a slut.