tldr: Porfirio Rubirosa proves, in case there was any doubt, that men of extreme value can turn the tables on women and render them into beta bux.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Porfirio_Rubirosa

Wait a minute! He was married five times!?!?!?! He must have been a fucking beta bux because as we ALL know: "Don't get married."

However, marriages 3 thru 5 . . . .

Doris Duke, American heiress, September 1, 1947 – October 1948;

with marital gifts and final settlement he received an alimony ($25,000 per year until remarriage), a fishing fleet off Africa, several sports cars, a converted B-25 bomber (La Ganza), and a 17th-century house in Rue de Bellechasse, Paris.[9]

Barbara Hutton, American heiress, December 30, 1953 – February 20, 1954; in the settlement he received a coffee plantation in the Dominican Republic, another B-25, polo ponies, jewelry, and a reported $2.5 million.[10]

Odile Rodin, French actress, age 19, October 27, 1956 – July 5, 1965 (his death).

Why was he so popular with the ladies?

His schlong was so enormous that Parisian waiters named pepper mills after it. He was also "good with the ladies."

So in this situation, this guy was so alpha that he was able to marry two heiresses for a year a piece and collect insane cash and prizes. THEY were the beta buxes. Neither were ugly either. Then he retires to polo and race car driving in his mid-forties with a 19 year old who stayed with him until he died.

Analysis:

Rubirosa got away with all this because he provided extreme value; he was so valuable that he was in demand from heiresses with tens of millions of dollars at their disposal.

How did he offer value?

  1. Cock aristocrat. He was in the top 0.01%. Even if women ultimately decide they're not size queens, many will find the mystique and allure of a ginormous dong impossible to resist, especially if they have friends who are size queens, who, after years of being unsatisfied, will suddenly be delivered into the Rapture.

  2. Upper middle-class background that put him in touch with the upper classes; this gave him the polish, or ability to navigate the signs and symbols of the upper classes necessary to meet top tier women; most guys with large dongs just wind up in porn;

  3. His upper-middle class background also led to job opportunities at the upper echelons; the article suggests he was a type of James Bond for the Dominican Republic, so this no doubt added to his allure; he also probably had access to a slush fund to display a high roller lifestyle.

So, he had everything women want rolled into one package, and he used it to extract extremely amounts of wealth from several of them. Whether what he did was honorable or not is besides the point. From a sexual strategy POV, and from a power politics POV, the dude was dealt a nice hand, but more importantly, he played it to the hilt.

Lessons Learned

Obviously, this is an extreme example of what women want, however the nice thing about extremes is that they provide a clear, polar, contrast between desirable attributes and undesirable attributes. Two of the richest women in the world allowed themselves to be divorce-raped just for the privilege of spending a year with the guy. This is the scenario that many rich beta bux men endure, and since it happens so frequently, it has led men to believe that they are worth inherently less than women. Here is a counter-example that shows that value is subjective, even across genders.