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Ice-Cold laid-back alpha guy:

Sharp, confident and relaxed eyes. Deep Voice. Slow talking. Doesnt talk too much. Talks more directly and probably is more honest. Keeps his sentences short. Never gets upset. Smiles only very slightly ( keeps his "Brad Pitt" face most of the time ). Doesnt laugh about his own jokes. Keeps long eye contact. Doesnt move his eyebrows a lot. Doesnt use his hands to express feelings or whatever.

This picture of Brad Pitt demonstrates this facial expression and the behaviour behind that well : http://s3.amazonaws.com/auteurs_production/images/cast_member/2552/original.jpg

The newest James Bond in his movies is also a good example.

I have no problem behaving and looking like that. I practice a lot.

Enthusiastic Good hearted guy: Very expressive look in his eyes. Moves his eyebrows a lot. Smiles and laughs a lot. Uses a lot of hand mimic. Doesnt hesitate to use a higher voice and talk very rapidly. Makes a lot of jokes, is always positive and talks about things in a very motivated way. Is very friendly and humble ( Not gentleman like though, im too young for that).

Look at this guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qaeHsoIFn0

His name is Alpha.M. Just a question on a side note, would you call this guy just from how he talks, looks, and behaves an attractive and alpha man?

Look how he talks and the faces he makes. Always smiling, very positive and very motivated. Always cracking a joke and talking in a not-rude way. Doesnt have a problem in behaving a bit childish ( Is that good or nah? ) I may not talk as motivated and enthusiastic as Alpha.M does, but i am very close to it.

So now my question:

How and why should i approach a woman one way or another. Why do you think one way is better than the other. ** **Which way am i going to have the better chances with. Maybe compare these 2 different approaches/personalities with yourself? What works best for you?

This is what i feel/think:

Laid-back Alpha: I feel this one will get me more rejections, because people might not be comfortable around me. But i also think, this will get me laid faster. I feel this will attract all the self confident slutty ( but hot) girls. So doing it the James Bond way.

Positive gold hearted guy: I tried out both approaches, and i feel this one will give me more numbers and will give me an easier time talking to girls. I always feel people feel more comfortable around me this way. People also tend to smile more. So literally doing it like this Alpha.M guy in the video i have linked above. But i also feel this will give me more dates than sex . I feel i would rather attract all the cute and nice girls, rather than the slutty hot girls. I also feel this will give me more dates and less one night stands and less making out. I also feel people will lose interest in me faster. Sometimes i feel, i just end up being the "nice guy" again. The funny dude who is cool to hang around with.

Tell me what you think about this