I'll keep this question as brief as possible. I fully embrace the Red Pill philosophy on sexual and social dynamics, and have had some success putting it into practice.

However, I do not want to make others suffer in the pursuit of my sexual goals. I know the response from some on this thread will be to point out that women have no issue with making men suffer in their hypergamous pursuits. But another key emphasis on this sub is that as men geared toward self-improvement, we should expect more from ourselves.

One example: when I practice my game on a woman who is attractive enough to talk to, but not attractive enough to follow through with. So in many cases I'll number close and indicate that I might like to meet up, then blow her off. I charm her and get her excited, then disappear. This is essentially using her for my own self-development. I need the practice, but I don't want to fuck with people's minds.

Any input would be appreciated. Just looking for opinions. Or maybe I'm looking for someone to rationalize my behavior so I can continue without guilt.