The modern attention seeking American woman calls everything under the sun "abuse" No matter how ridiculous or invalid the claims are, they are never questioned, and always accepted as abuse victims. If someone comes out and says"hold on, that's not abuse. He literally just said hi" Then you're labeled as abusive yourself

Modern American Woman: "I had to leave. I was abused"

Me: "Oh really? What abusive thing did he do?

Modern American Woman: "Well, you see he never physically touched me. He would never. It was more so emotional abuse."

Me: "okay, yeah, emotional abuse is still valid and is still abuse. What did he do to abuse you emotionally?"

Modern American Woman: "Well, you know, he had some issues and he projected them onto me. He was just insecure"

Me: confused "uuuuh okay, did he call you names? Did he say that you were worthless? Did he try to trap you? Did he use money to manipulate you?"

Modern American Woman: "No no none of that, he would never call me names or make me uncomfortable."

Me: "okay, well can you maybe name one instance where he did something abusive to you?"

Modern American Woman: "there was this one time where he was all paranoid and it was a little much and I had to just pretend to go along with it to make things easier..."

Me: "That's not abuse. That's called being with someone who has mental illness. You weren't abused and you're cheapening real abuse victims"

All of her attention seeking friends and white knights: "Omg I am SO sorry this misogynist is denying your abuse! You don't deserve that! Please understand that this is NOT your fault"