Wife is giving me sex if I want it but won't kiss me or let me please her. That's unacceptable to me, so I put my foot down. I also quit jerking off, it's been over a week. Remember.. Strength and honor is accompanied by pain. Embrace the pain!

So at first, it was painful, then uncomfortable. Then, I experienced liberation. If I'm able to continue, then I am free of my weakest link. The illusion that I need to cum to be happy. I'm 36 and very active so don't think I'm some old guy who can't enjoy sex. Quite the opposite.

Anyone else ever find the same truth?