How do I get her back?

RuleZeroDAD · 2016-11-13T18:18:19+00:00

Is this a troll post?

RuleZeroDAD · 2016-11-13T19:14:15+00:00

It's the horseshit Dreident story with some small swapped equivalents. Same style and everything.

Keep trying troll, work on those riddles and maintain that bridge.

https://amp.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/4r8h4h/been_together_for_almost_9_years_got_married_5/.

Sepean · 2016-11-13T17:23:22+00:00

Whatever you think you have been doing with your "fighting" is indeed pushing her away. You mention zero masculine or value building actions or attitudes in your post.

Begin lifting, get your diet on point, read the sidebar and implement all the advice in it. You need to become a high value man that women find attractive, and that will give you an excellent shot at getting her back; and even if that fails you'll be in perfect position to build whatever sort of romantic life you want.

screechhater · 2016-11-13T17:29:07+00:00

"She and I got married last winter after a short period of cold feet from her side"

just FYI, you can not negotiate desire

"then she wanted a break, so that she can take some time to herself, which I agreed to"

then -

"And then I found out she's been "dating" him since the day after I moved out."

You actually give ten fucks about this person ? Are you still paying half the rent or is the mortage still in your name ?

My advice: life is not over, but your marriage should be, file for divorce and you should ghost the cunt, because in the long run, time on this is a waste.

Put time into yourself and move forward with your life.

One of the biggest paradigms in life is self respect.

Read the side bar >>>>>>

blarggggggggggg · 2016-11-13T17:50:08+00:00

With such a short marriage, you will probably be able to avoid a financially painful divorce. I advise you get out asap, start going through the sidebar, hit monk mode and self-improvement for awhile while you go through the grief of losing the relationship. You will come out on the other side with a much higher value, esteem and self-understanding and will be able to do much much much better with women in the future.

The answer to "How do I get her back?" is that you don't. She was never yours to begin with, it was just your turn.

sexyshoulderdevil · 2016-11-13T17:56:57+00:00

Will a google search find this text?

bradycar · 2016-11-13T17:58:55+00:00

why do you want to be with this woman?

[deleted] · 2016-11-13T17:59:54+00:00

Giving op a day to unfuck this bullshit.

That break was to suck some dudes cock btw. How's your love feeling now?

bradycar · 2016-11-13T18:22:00+00:00

I could really use advice.

Here's the best advise that you will ever get and I am certain you will not take it.

Move on before you make any children from this marriage that should have never been. Best. Done.

mabden · 2016-11-13T18:33:45+00:00

I want to give her space and time to come to her senses.

Yeah, do this. Give her all the time she needs, to find a divorce lawyer and you do the same. Once you make the fucking decision that she is no longer worth your time/energy and have her served with divorce papers will she "come to her senses."

I believe her

PM me, I have some land in Florida and a bridge in New York to sell.

BobbyPeru · 2016-11-13T22:46:35+00:00

But you say he's just a friend. Yeah you say he's just a friend. Oh baby yoOouuu

WhiteTrashKiller · 2016-11-13T17:23:04+00:00

Cut your losses. Move on! In fact cut your homo friends out too! Fight for her! WTF?

You do not measure up to this guy and that is ok you have to accept it. What you don't have to accept is for your manhood to be trampled upon. Wake the fuck up! Put on some big boy pants and get back out there.

This is blunt so please accept this advice cautiously. You sound like a manchild, "I can't find a better mate". What are you a fucking 14 yr old girl? Stop investing so much into a woman that you become a depreciating asset.

Ask yourself this. Why would she want something anyone can have? Women do not want something given to them freely. They want to feel that you were earned because she is that exceptional. Guess what! She is not and neither are you!

Read the sidebar because it is quite eveident you haven't. Fix your diet and hit the goddamn gym. These are the 3 rules here that can help unfuck anyones life.....

We cannot fix anything for you! There are no cheat codes in our way of life.......... You can either swallow it and get to work or..................

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Title	How do I get her back?
Author	bradycar
Upvotes	0
Comments	41
Date	November 13, 2016 5:13 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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