Femdom

[deleted] · 2014-04-28T12:09:51+00:00

This would be an astronomical turn off to the type of woman who would be submissive in the RP way in a relationship and would utterly erode her daily respect for you. the conjecture that she would enjoy it in the bedroom is male projection, a submissive woman would be horrified by the sight of her man acting weak, disgusted and turned off. this is why men with femdom fantasies use third parties to act them out. the idea that a woman can compartmentalize like a man can and keep the bitchy cunt femdom in the bedroom and be sweet and submissive in life is patently ludicrous on its face.

machimus · 2014-04-28T07:15:30+00:00

I would test the waters very carefully. I'm sure bringing it up is talked to death on forums about this topic. After all, it's about trust anyway so you'll have to establish both the trust and the boundaries to get away with it. Assuming she's into it, that is.

If you have well defined trust and boundaries in advance, they will be easy to adhere to down the road.

CrimsonCapsule · 2014-04-28T14:58:20+00:00

I had a femdom gf for a while.

It was all messed up, honestly. She'd been abused and stalked in a past relationship, and being the domme was how she could feel "safe". I was a gamma that had just worked up to a beta, but I had some looks going for me and I guess I made a good target for her stresses.

It was pretty hot, truth be told, but it really couldn't last. She ultimately didn't want to have to drive the Sex Bus all the time, and I got tired of never being in control. We left each other on good terms.

It's hard to be a submissive little bitch in the bedroom and a red pill man's man out of it. And as you get older, I think that difficulty only increases.

[deleted] · 2014-04-28T06:21:38+00:00

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logi_thebear · 2014-04-28T10:23:33+00:00

This is most conjecture, but it would seem to me that if you maintain being alpha in the relationship, she'll find this to be a huge turn on. It's not like you're actually putting her in control, it's just role playing. Know what I mean? You still where the pants, she just gets to experience it for a little bit during sex.

Title	Femdom
Author	D-Bozzle
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	April 28, 2014 5:21 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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