Gentlemen,

I was released back out into the wild ~9 months ago, and I've been navigating the jungle since then. Mini-FR and request for next steps.

Story: Girl I hung out with (HB7) twice who put up HARD LMR the second time invited me over after I ignored her for ~1 week. Same song, different verse - "we shouldn't", "this is a bad idea", etc. I ignore it and keep on doing stuff to her and, lo and behold, we finally fuck.

In short, it's awful. No enthusiasm, no work on her part, no sucking my dick, barely any touching. After trying to get her off for ~30 minutes, I quit, and she says, "Sorry, I haven't had sex with anybody since my ex -BF died in a car crash, and I couldn't relax." I say OK (judging by how upset she was, she wasn't lying), depart on amicable terms.

So I soft nexted her. Clearly some emotional hangups and a lousy lay, if she wants to improve she'll probably get a me. No communication of any kind. It's been 12 days since that encounter, and nothing. My questions here are:

  • How, if at all, should I have played this differently?
  • Judging by the radio silence in this interval, should I assume I won't ever talk to this woman again? (Or bother initiating contact?)

Advice appreciated.