I was reading the post on TRP today about "alpha widows" — women who fall into the mental trap of having high SMV while young, date/hook up with high SMV men who would never commit to them, but these women now have set very high expectations for potential mates, expectations which can never realistically be met as their SMV declines over time.

I know a girl who seems to be falling into that trap and I'm looking for advice/suggestions on what to do with such a girl.

For context: I have been working on myself, but I am not necessarily alpha in all respects yet, as I am relatively recent BP in recovery. Although I do think I am making good progress: already have a great career, nice car, attractive enough but working out at the gym and losing my excess weight (my main flaw), nice apartment, good sense of humor and intelligence, great set of life experiences which make for good stories to tell, musical skills/hobby, etc.

So I was interested in suggestions from RP veterans - is there some way that a man could introduce a woman to RP ideas, before she makes too many mistakes and ends up as an Alpha Widow? I mean, other than simply being a unicorn high SMV "perfect man".

This video that was in the alpha widow thread is pretty much exactly this woman. Pretty high SMV now at 29, doesn't seem to have been riding the CC although I would say definitely has had her share of alpha fucks in her life and she can't figure out why she's single. Clearly the clock is ticking for her and I don't think she knows it. And it seems like she pretty much rejects everyone now - the alpha fucks are no longer appealing to her, but that combination of alpha/beta traits that makes a man a good LTR prospect is elusive to her because of her alpha widow delusions.

She has a beta orbiter neighbor who she has told me about, and I feel bad for the guy because I can clearly see the mistakes he's making with her and I used to be that guy: he cooks for her, he fixes her computer, etc. Meanwhile she has expressed that she has absolutely zero interest in him.

Any advice? Just ignore her because it's incurable and focus on women who have a more firm grasp of reality? (That seems like a smaller pond to fish in). Strategies to unplug her from the matrix and get the win?

I am on the bubble with this girl. Not quite the beta like her neighbor, but not quite the ideal alpha she is pining for. I'm working the okcupid scene and the local bar scene in order to come from a frame of abundance (no one-itis here, even if I get this girl I'm still going to be looking for plates to spin) but I am trying to figure out if there's an approach that will work with this particular girl. I just think it would be a huge win for me if I can make it work, and there's probably a lot of learning that could happen in this situation that I won't necessarily get from lower SMV women on okcupid or at the local dive bar.

So, I ask TRP. What say you?

EDIT: thanks for all the good helpful replies. It's exactly for this kind of clear-headed, brutally honest feedback that I posted my question on r/askTRP, and not on r/relationships.