TLDR: Can nerdy kids studying pre-med bang bad bitches?
I love this subreddit, I love trp also, but ever since finding it, I've been asking way too much and reading instead of doing myself and learning. With that being said, if you mind reading and helping me with my last question I'd appreciate it.
I'm 6ft, African and studying medicine. Due to African upbringing I've spent my life studying and playing games. I hang around other kids studying engineering and medicine also. I'm a virgin and I have no trouble dating girls like this and this. but I haven't fucked and I know that's on me to fix.
I have no problem talking about school stuff and games, but that doesn't attract girls. In an effort to do that, I'm becoming a more interesting person by following hobbies I have and trying new things. On top of this I'm lifting weights to improve myself and increase my confidence and smv.
I don't even feel like I fit in with black people due to me not having the same girl pick up skills they do, different upbringings and interests/study focus, more timid/less aggressive personality, so I sat with the Asian kids all of my life.
Not to throw shade on anyone, but hanging around with those kids won't get me into any great parties or with hot girls. In order to get that I'm working on networking with football players/athletes and people who get pussy daily, but I feel so far behind in experience compared to them and we don't really connect/relate well enough to have good friendships (well me using them for what they can give me)
Through the posts from enlightened individuals on trp I know to focus on myself and worry about women last, but I'll be honest: I just wanna get laid this year and be able to pick up girls I'm into (read: any smv) and not just the ones I think I can get.
Questions:
Can nerdy kids studying pre-med bang bad bitches?
How do I start networking/socializing with football players/athletes to get into their social group, parties and girls in the group?
Will lifting literally fix all of my issues or should I focus on game to bang girls? I know that's said a lot that lifting fixes everything, but I know I should be doing more but if I can get away with more things by being attractive then focusing on lifting should let me be myself and still bang girls.
Should I dress how I like, best way to fit in (with the athletes), or how I want to be perceived?. I can't play the persona of the first 2 pictures, but I feel that the third one seems bummy and average (fits me tho) and if anyone else wore something like that and wasn't attractive, rich, or famous, they would be perceived low smv.
Being in the 10% Minority at a school that's 90% white and rich (private school), any advice? What should I do/make sure to not do?
Do I treat all girls the same (AWALT) or tune and tweek my actions depending on the girl (been around boys all her life vs haven't kissed a boy before)?
What's one thing I can do to have a kick ass year and get ahead?
Thanks for reading this if you got this far. Really appreciate it. Hope to start giving field reports as a form of thanks for all the advice and help you guys have given me.
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