I understand intellect in itself is nerdy and can't get you laid on its own. but where does a man who is intellectually inclined in matters of philosophy , art and literature stand in a woman's mind? what is the best way to put that trait to use? what are the things to avoid? i made a few notes of my own, like 1) never be showy 2) never argue 3)put forward your point in concise and cool manner 4)listen more. any more additions and insights on this one?