Dating women of different ages

Danedina · 2016-08-10T15:38:42+00:00

I generally steer clear of the generic "post-wall" hand-wave, but I do think age has something to do with it.

In all of these cases, you have to remember that these chicks have been around the block and can have a double-scoop of mint-chocolate dick whenever they want. A 22 year old may have never been with a real Man before, but these chicks have, so just being studly isn't enough to make them swoon, especially if they're single (ie if they had a beta husband, maybe they're craving a He-man type).

chick 1: Humorless Type A who spends all her free time at the gym? You were a work-out partner, nothing more. A chick like this is looking to partner up with Frank Underwood. Put it this way: are you helping her to make partner at the firm? In any case, she's lame so who cares. The sex probably would have been mechanical.

chick 2 &3: Was there a reason you didn't try to cash in your chips on the first date? It sounds like they were DTF. In both cases it ended because they're in husband hunting mode and you didn't provide that vibe.

Girls in their early 20s are dreamers. Once they hit 30 that clock is ticking loudly.

I'm in my mid-40s, divorced with 2 kids, so women who get close to me do the math pretty quickly and realize that I"m not prime beta bucks. In your case, I'm guessing you tossed out a hard-core sexual vibe, which they responded to but moved on from after the date was over.

jb_trp · 2016-08-10T16:33:48+00:00

There are some good looking women in their mid to early 30s (30-35), if they take care of themselves. They will do everything a girls in their 20s will do, and sometimes even more. They are often the easiest pump-n-dumps or plates.

They often have children from earlier marriages, so don't LTR them, but these can have advantages of a built in dread game. They're at home with their 8 year old (just waiting for the weekend when the kid goes to their dads and you can rail her again) while you're out with a 23 year old. Easy.

However...

These women often come with a lot of baggage. They can be bitter alpha widows and expect commitment soon. Many of them are sluts who try to use sex to get a relationship with you (often by withholding sex until you commit). Don't fall into their game and you'll be good. Many of them are professionals who will spoil you if you play your cards right (e.g. lawyers, doctors, college professors, etc.). These are often the freakiest ones in bed, but can have a hint of crazy, so keep your radar up and next them when you see it.

TopTRP · 2016-08-10T18:14:23+00:00

Women become jaded with age and experience.

At 16, a girl thinks her first boyfriend is her soulmate and they'll be together forever.

She doesn't give a shit about his financial prospects, or what kind of car he drives, or whether he wears a sport coat vs a polo shirt.

All she cares about is that he's her boyfriend and that they should be together.

Once a girl is 30....she's seen everything and is much more picky/jaded/whatever you want to call it.

During the actual date she's attracted to you.

But afterwards, the hamster starts spinning and their mind dwells on shit like this:

"Oh this guy ordered a mojito on our date...that's tacky."

Or in your case "This guy takes steroids and he's not able to look like heman naturally?...ugh what a turn off."

Remember Women live in the moment

They are slaves to their feelings at any particular time. That's what you're experiencing from these jaded older women rather than the young ones who's minds are filled with anticipation of when they can see you again.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-08-10T20:20:33+00:00

If you are nailing 21-26, WTF do you care about Wall bitches?

Women have this nutty idea that, as their SMV declines somehow their "price" should go up. They might as well go down to the ASPCA and ask for the "Crazy Cat Lady Starter Kit" box of kittens.....

Il128 · 2016-08-10T16:02:13+00:00

Women who vib the "I want to fuck" on the first date will next any man who doesn't escalate and fuck them.

A shitload of men make this mistake. Not fucking on the first meeting or date is a great way to get nexted.

rot_barth · 2016-08-11T02:35:57+00:00

Is is the age or the professions?

2 lawyers - not the profession I associate with fun & mirth exactly. I won't date unless I have connection 1st and then find out that they do that (and probably would limit to corporate or trust/estate)

Teacher might be religious/principled so that's why nay on the PED use.

Focusing on the age may be a red herring unless you assess that they were looking only for betas (1st doesn't seem to be, 2nd maybe as teachers usually look for someone to support them because of low relative play, 3rd is 30 so therefore at the wall).

Make any sense?

everquestnerd · 2016-08-10T18:05:13+00:00

Just currious what did you tell her when she was hating on your roid gains?

Title	Dating women of different ages
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Date	August 10, 2016 3:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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