25M, ex isolated me from all my friends I now she's gone I have some attachment issues. With women it's not so bad, since I'm usually the one who's less invested, but with guys, I find myself looking for comrades and buddies, and not really finding many.
I care too much about having friends, and it'll show in my wanting to do X activity I'm lukewarm about because I'd rather have some friends than none.

How do I bond with guys, and become better friends? I've heard of being goal driven with guys, and finding people who are interested rather than convincing existing friends to join my interests.
How do I lead a group of guys, what are signs that a guy is not interested in being your friend, etc. ?
Edit: More info - I'm usually willing to walk away, but that means I don't really get IN, if that helps.