Cheating in a LTR

stephcurryftw · 2016-09-27T19:40:47+00:00

If the LTR is boring, then just end it. Go fuck other girls after that. Don't cheat, it's a dick move.

MrLakai · 2016-09-27T20:03:32+00:00

IF you're bored in this relationship already than whats the point of staying. Nothings going to change and it will get even worse as time goes on. Try to spice things up in the bedroom, if you just fuck her the same way every time she will get bored and stop seeking your attention an approval. In the end the better you fuck her the more engaged she will be with you and the more she will do for you. There is a high change that she is also bored of you and only reflecting the way your feeling. Girls do this all the time.

thkalimavri · 2016-09-27T20:18:29+00:00

Have your cake and eat it. Just remember to clean up the crumbs!

FourcasT · 2016-09-27T20:49:01+00:00

What are you getting from this girl that is worth holding on to is what you should be asking?

I'd just end it and fuck other people. Simple as that, you obviously don't want to be committed and just go to pound town as much as possible with different girls (I recommend).

verily_rp · 2016-09-27T19:46:36+00:00

TRP is amoral.

Ask yourself what the best thing you can do for your own self improvement and do it.

twxxx · 2016-09-27T22:27:49+00:00

I have to cheat, I really lose interest in my LTR no matter how hott they are. Cheating really helps bring some of that attraction back to be honest. My LTR 'knows' and just says to use condoms.

Losing sexual attraction is different than being bored of your girlfriend though. If you aren't happy with her as a person then end it.

NwAlf · 2016-09-27T22:53:12+00:00

Regarding some comments here: do you really think that a woman that loves a guy would not get emotional when she sees makeup in your shirt? I mean, maybe she forgets later, but no emotions? just a smile and nothing else?

That sounds to me like she is not aroused or emotionally attached to you, but just she´s ok whith the agreement. Which it´s ok if you like, but I don´t know...

Your thoughs?

PIGamer86 · 2016-09-28T02:01:48+00:00

Say what you want, but do what you say. Get a lawyer and end it.

BestSC86 · 2016-09-28T03:47:11+00:00

Hamstering.....

"Honeybee, I had to fuck her to make you happy".....just make sure she isn't armed when you drop that nugget.

Suggestion: Arrange for her to get royally pounded without consequences by your best friend for a entire weekend and if you feel wonderful about it...then proceed.

Willow-girl · 2016-09-28T05:33:38+00:00

Yup, I have been a cheater in past relationships.

Here's the thing: Any relationship will run on hormones and endorphins for about two years, more or less. Beyond that point, you have to make a conscious effort to keep it going, keep it fresh, keep falling in love with your partner and vice-versa. It won't simply run under its own steam like it did in the beginning. What you have turns into something different than what you had at the start, but it can be very good in its own way.

Of course, you can also chuck it and start over again -- start a new relationship with all the juicy hormones and endorphins, etc. Just be aware that the same thing will happen all over again around the two-year mark. The honeymoon never lasts forever!

Have you considered that maybe your current partner is as bored with your relationship as you are? Before you step out, and run the risk of whatever comes from being caught cheating, maybe you should try to liven things up at home first? If it doesn't work, you can always get some on the side ... it's not like the world is going to run out of horny women, lol.

Title	Cheating in a LTR
Author	throwthebluepillaway
Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	September 27, 2016 7:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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