The background is long, question in the final 2 paragraphs.

There is a girl 15 years my junior, I have been out of the dating/hooking up scene for 20 years. After discovering TRP I have been implementing what I have learned in small increments.

I have been using this girl as my testing grounds of TRP theory. She is married but strongly contemplating a divorce.

She has a friend that is completely sweet on her, they have kissed but she puts that solely on him. He has brought her a nice bouquet of roses. Apparently he is now pressuring her for them to be together.

She made the comment that the would be suitor is "such a girl". My question is, should I give her any advice, voice my opinion or just kick back and enjoy the show?

I would like to date/plate her but have not proceeded due to her being married, but I want to keep the option open. What response keeps the option open?