Been in an LDR for almost 6 months now. First month or so before agreeing on exclusiveness she was aware that I was seeing other women. Of course she wasn't happy about it and has used it against me on a couple of occasions.

Passed 3 or 4 major shit tests like a boss. The last one was a bluff to break up with me because she didn't trust me. Whether or not that was the truth, I basically told her that was fine, ignored several hostile texts, replied very briefly and calmly to other texts then eventually answered when she called the next day. Told her I can't control her and explained that what she was doing was drama and I'm at a point in my life where if something isn't making me happy, I remove it. She proceeded to ask repeatedly if I was "going to stop acting shady".

We talk regularly on the phone for an hour or two every 1-2 days and message throughout the day during the week. I see her once or twice a month and always give her orgasms and rough sex. Never acted clingy or beta during the entire relationship and I've been her rock when she's been emotional or angry.

I'm proud of my discipline thus far but got another shit test tonight when she called. She asked what I was doing and was very short in her responses so I asked if there was something bothering her. She proceeded to ask me repeatedly what was wrong with me and that my "tone" sounded different and accused me of lying. I laughed at most of her accusations then proceeded to set a boundary by saying "I told you nothing's wrong and I don't appreciate being called a liar". She's says "ok I'm going to bed" to which I reply "ok" and she hangs up.

We have plans this weekend of which I'll be driving to visit her and going to a Halloween party. She's been talking about being excited to get drunk because she hasn't been able to go out for several months. Have any of you encountered these sort of tests or actions leading up to a meet? How do you handle it? I plan to carry on like nothing happened, she's been very stressed lately and, as much as it pisses me off that she does this shit, I tell myself to stay calm and be the rock and just keep in mind that it's irrational, emotional behavior that means nothing. Any thoughts?

TLDR; shit test a few days before visiting LDR that "I'm lying" and "what's wrong with me". How to handle?