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I think it's totally normal. You're not going to treat your girl the same way you treat your buddies.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:53 PM
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Stop reading guides. If you think you have to game them with texts, you've already lost. Say hi, then ask when they're free. Ignore any age bullshit or flip the script and say they "might be too old".
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:38 AM
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I know what you mean. I'm over 30 and still crave that scene. I think it's normal and that a lot of people suppress this feeling out of fear of social reprisal.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 01:27 AM
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She's enjoying the control. She wants you to literally beg for sex so she can tell you no. Next her until she organizes the next date, and it's something you want to do. Honestly, she's crazy by the sound of it. You're better off ghosting her.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 01:18 AM
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Increase T levels by lifting.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:53 PM
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Drop the vidya games. Stop escaping reality. Your mind is constantly in consumer mode playing that shit. Mine was too, so I quit completely. And I played every minute I was awake when not working or sleeping... for years. I ranked as a top 5 player worldwide for some fairly popular games about 10 years ago. I don't touch that shit anymore out of fear I'll get addicted again and feel like shit about myself. I can't play anything that involves more than 5 minutes of my full attention at a time. Dr…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:47 PM
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Try it this way. Twice a week ask yourself if you feel like shit. If the answer is yes, ask yourself what you've done the past few days to better yourself. The answer will normally be nothing or next to nothing. Then ask yourself if you want to feel like shit again in a few days. If the answer is no, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. That day, go to the gym and lift for 45 minutes and then run for 30 minutes. There are other positive things you can do to work social/mental/spiritual progress too--not just …
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:40 PM
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Not all women are boring. Generally the more attractive they are, the more boring they are. Attractive girls with dating experience have learned all they gotta do is be present, be talked to, and be gamed by a valuable guy. Less attractive girls don't have that same convenience unless they date down or equally. I've dated some gorgeous girls who were legitimately better than me in terms of humor, hobbies, and fitness though. So it's not really something that can be applied to ALL women.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:32 PM
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You game the entire social circle of friends. Display high value with them, be playful, be confident as fuck, and pay her no attention the first few times you talk to them.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:30 PM
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Work toward your goals. Make progress in life and stop being a piece of shit. Look to yourself for blame and don't be so quick to throw it at your single mother.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:28 PM
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If you find shit out from snooping, don't bring it up unless it's a platonic friend. You'd have to talk to her naturally and let her volunteer that info. But let's address the real problem. Stop looking at a girls' profiles. You're adoring them from a distance and they don't even fucking know you. That's a streamline way to pedestalize a pussy. You should really just be surprised you remember her name at this point. You lost this battle before you started.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:24 PM
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You're scared to hurt her feelings. Get it through your head that her feelings aren't your concern anymore. Girls her age can hop on a new dick the next day and be just fine.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:56 PM
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I was in this position almost exactly two years ago. TRP pretty much reprogrammed half of what I had originally been battling in my mind about relationships, and validated the other half on how and why I felt certain ways about women. Anger is part of the accepting it as truth. Keep reinforcing to yourself there's nothing to logically be angry about. Everyone behaves the way they do for a reason, and in the grand scheme it has nothing to do with you personally.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:49 PM
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Maybe I'm not digging as deep as you are on this topic; but I've always used work and progress to support my confidence, and confidence to support my ego. If I find myself feeling down or bad about something in my life, I think about any recent progress I've had. Every single time I can recall, I could attribute my lack of confidence to inaction. I stopped making progress. The immediate and long-term fix has always been to buckle down and work for myself.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:42 PM
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admired adored* And yeah, the girl in my story was dicked down by the best before my turn.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:00 PM
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Had a HB8 plate who was all tatted up, few piercings. She was a lesbian for around 6 years prior. Said she hated feminists. Joked saying we should get married within 2 hours of meeting her. Tried the usual bullshit about relationship dynamics until I just took the lead in all situations. She poured the truth out to me after I started leading, "I love being told what to do, spit on, dominated, slapped". Almost said all of that shit in the same sentence. When we'd talk, I noticed she would occasio…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:42 PM
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That's good. See how she acts when she gets home.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:45 PM
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That's fine. Just don't ask her anything. It will take lots of self control.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 12:47 PM
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Tell her you were out slaying dragons. When she asks again, tell her you were helping the homeless. When she asks again, tell her you were at a gay club. If you tell her enough funny lies, she will give up. Just don't give up first.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 12:13 PM
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Heavy dread. Be gone for hours, give her zero details. I wouldn't even talk to her after that shit unless I heard an apology. If she can't figure that out on her own, she'd be single within a week. u don't deserve my love This was one cold-hearted comment to say to a SO. If at the end of about a week of cold treatment and she hasn't come to her senses, dump her. Worry about living arrangement drama after the dumping--unless you can easily move away, then just start looking for places now so you'…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:15 AM
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unattractive to the girls I'm interested in You aren't understanding AWALT, and perhaps you're leaning to far into the PUA scene. The goal normally isn't to be a "player" here. Likely situations: Plate 1 puts out 1st date, but has some good qualities. You keep her around to see if she changes your mind. She leaves quickly. Plate 2 waits until date 3. Some bad qualities, but you keep her around to see if she changes your mind. She leaves at around date 7 because she feels you're stringing her alo…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:36 AM
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I'm between two big cities. Could just be timing and luck.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:57 PM
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You need to find abundance. You have none and it's going to cause you to pedestalize pussy, kinda like you're doing now. I think "not wanting plates" is a cop out. Just put forth less effort toward plates if time is the issue.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:08 PM
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It's the opposite where I live. Cuter and more receptive girls are on Bumble, plus unlimited swipes. The 30/day or whatever on Tinder is silly.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:06 PM
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Stick with "hey". Don't be a dancing monkey. Also give Bumble a try.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 09:00 PM
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That's nice that you like her, but she's already betrayed you by leaving your side. And you said it yourself: she has enough personal problems. She needs to figure out how to be happy with herself. That isn't your responsibility. Find a girl that isn't broken.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:58 PM
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To find out which ways you can't be changed.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:55 PM
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Yes, while running is really good for you it will be easier on your joints (knees, shins) to alternate with biking/swimming periodically. I hear a lot about retired soldiers and marines who had cartilage problems with their knees from running so much. It's not so much about time as it is effort put forth. Research the healthy heart rate target for fat burning and maintain it for as long as health guides suggest for your bf %.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:53 AM
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How vigorous are your cardio exercises? Heart rate? Time? Distance? Do you alter between running/swimming/biking?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 08:06 AM
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It would be better, but dude has gains and showing them off is pretty much broadcasting that he's proud of himself. It would also be in his best interest if he'd drop the whole "not trying to be a douchebag" bullshit. Fuck that, be a douche so long as it's an attractive one.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:43 AM
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So just suck her dick and hope she returns the favor?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:26 AM
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only treat people the way you want to be treated I want people to suck my dick. Does that mean I should go around sucking dick every day?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 06:22 AM
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Drop it, drop your gf, and block them both. You're treading on dangerous waters now, and any words you use can be used against you. It's an enormous red flag for your gf to cry to someone else and have them fight against you for her. To top it off, "emotional abuse" is feminist rape culture lingo and you need to escape this situation with as little drama as possible. Bitches be cray, but the legal system will still fight for them.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 06:18 AM
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Once you squat 1.5x your body weight, you grow a half inch.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 06:03 AM
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[] IDGAF [] IGAF Pick one. If you choose the first one, leave it up.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:04 AM
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Get a standing desk.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:59 AM
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Been in an LDR... Found your main issue, bro.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:51 AM
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This reeks of horse shit. Try measuring your height in the morning instead of at night. You'll find you're at least a fraction taller in the morning, too.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:50 AM
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Mother fucker how old are you both? Read the sidebar, because apparently you missed the little part where it covers the entire dynamic of what a man's commitment means in terms of your overall value. A woman who is so busy or "career-oriented" she can't see you more than twice a week is not worth throwing away your options for. She wants a career, not a LTR. Plate her for another six months and revisit those feelings.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:39 AM
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She's making her homeless by doing what she did.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:09 AM
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If you don't live together, just hard next her as soon as it's convenient for you. You don't trust her, and she can't be trusted.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:45 AM
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The only long runs you need to think about are in finance and education. At least acknowledge to yourself that you still have a lot to learn when it comes to women, and don't subject your future self to your current limited experience.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:38 AM
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Are you trolling? This sounds fucking stupid. An old French lawyer or a sketchy Dubai woman who's pushing marriage on a 19-year-old? Try to be at least a little bit normal and fuck some local girls.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:16 AM
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Try to find a bro or two to go out drinking with on the weekends. Shoot the shit, chat up some girls, befriend others.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 02:13 AM
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"Bet it goes deeper than your throat"
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:20 AM
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It's not a problem unless you make it a problem. If you think she can't trust you, you're going to need to show her the door.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:10 PM
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Yup, after a while women start to wonder if all the housework is even worth the effort to stay in their relationship with you. That's when you promptly laugh in her face, tell her she's being silly, and remind her life isn't fair with a nice joking tone. If she wants to escalate it to a serious argument, you keep with the same light attitude. Tell her she's cute when she's mad. Any more escalation should make you start thinking about moving away from each other and ending the relationship.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:59 PM
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Tell her you're not doing that. Then tell her life isn't fair when she tries to vomit that 50-50 shit out of her mouth. Always be willing to throw it all away within minutes. If she wants an equal partner, tell her to go out and find one because you're supposed to be better than that. To be clear, you're not entitled to that. You earn that by making life your bitch. I actually do chores around our place like trash or anything that requires heavy shit or tools, though. I don't want my gf doing ma…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:45 PM
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Don't live with your parents. The money would be nice, but your ego will take an unnecessary hit. Go live in the shady area of town and get that accounting job. It will give you some freedom, allow for a steady income, and force you to limit yourself on expenses/outings since you aren't in the party/fun area.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:17 AM
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It honestly amazes me how girls can go from completely obsessed with you to not giving a shit just like that. It's because they get offered free dick three times a day. They get to follow their emotions from one guy to the next. As long as they're getting the highs off all the attention, they never have to experience the lows. This is why they'll always be concerned about "being a rebound". That's a projection of the way they think. If they go through a bad breakup, they'll fuck the nearest guy …
/r/askTRP25/10/16 05:00 AM
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All those little talks about nothing are the most meaningful and exposed conversations you can have with a girl. Keep your guard up next time. You let yourself love her more than 90%, leaving you with less than 10% for yourself when she left. It's going to take more time to rebuild. Let the emotions play out, be sad some more, and keep doing exactly what you're doing.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:41 AM
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When you do it playfully or in order to help someone understand or improve themselves or their relationship(s). DT implies a malicious intent with a goal of personal gain at others' expense.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:35 AM
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DTs are psychologically damaged individuals that have no place in society. Think Charles Manson.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:23 AM
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Yeah dude, you have to be a top 20% physically in order to arrange a ONS via Tinder. You can work your way into a FWB or plate if you have game and are around top 50% physically, but a ONS would require strong game.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:17 AM
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Not really. By the time you're 30 you've learned how to filter people out based on who you have time for, and you can do it easily because you can control where and with whom you spend your time.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:55 AM
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If she walked out on your ass, soft next her. Don't invite her over until she contacts you first.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:42 AM
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TRP gives people an insane level of self-awareness. So much that it consumes your mind and gets in the way of your own instincts, like getting your own dick hard. Stop thinking about how much of a piece of shit you think you are because you're not. I'm not saying get complacent, but treat yourself better and give yourself a little bit of positivity. Thinking you need to look a certain way or no one will be attracted to you is poisonous thinking. Get rid of that, but still focus on improvement. B…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:38 AM
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I give great head Someone's been messing with those T-girls.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:33 AM
2

Cardio your dick off. Eat less, eat better. Also unless you're 300+ lbs, don't just walk. If you're worried about your knees, alternate between biking, running, swimming, and the elliptical for like 45 min per day.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:27 AM
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You made her feel like a slut. You laid it on so thick she went hard LMR. My guess is you were 100% pull, 0% push.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:26 AM
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You can grab a woman by the pussy.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:24 AM
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"hi" "hey" "you free friday?" "ya" "meet me for drinks @ X @ X o'clock" "ok"
/r/askTRP25/10/16 03:23 AM
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And that's perfectly fine!
/r/askTRP24/10/16 04:32 AM
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Nice. I like this.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:49 PM
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Ever heard of the "thousand-cock stare"? It's an attitude that sluts carry with them when they've been dicked down too much. They're jaded. They are just going through the motions. How do you think these women treat relationships prospects? They treat guys okay at best, maybe even some respect if there's attraction but it fades quickly due to such a negative outlook. Too many pump-and-dumps ruin a woman's hope. For a girl on the opposite end of the spectrum, she still has hope, a feminine way of…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:44 PM
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Avoid dinner dates unless you're regularly fucking. You've only fucked once? Let it go another time or two to see how she behaves.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:36 PM
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He fucked a slut. You didn't know she was a slut until he showed you. I'd stay neutral with him. It's cool to have a beer with him, even mention your ex spending time with him, but I wouldn't jump to trusting him with any of your assets.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:27 PM
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It's normal. Your body is in WTF mode. The more often you work out, the less DOMS will affect you.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:21 PM
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Turn your FOMO on in the gym. That's motivation. Combine that with discipline and you will be capable of insane short-term improvements. Discipline is your most important source for long-term improvement. Nurture that. 6 days in the gym per week minimum.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:20 PM
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That's a sad read, and perfect evidence you can't date a victim. Sucks because it's not their fault, but you can see what it ultimately leads to with stories like these.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:11 PM
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Don't save her. They don't wanna be saved. -Project Pat Not a huge fan of rap, but the genre offers the most truth on relationships so I can't dislike it.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 07:10 PM
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You just need to redefine what happiness is to you. It was unhealthy before you found TRP.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 06:08 PM
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Virgins are no different than low-N-count girls. And they aren't much different than the rest, but they are a little different in terms of how they treat you. In terms of how you treat them, AWALT. Dinner is fine if you think she's worth your time, but think about yourself. When you encourage more time for serious conversation with a girl you're dating, you forge emotional bonds. Keep it light in order to protect yourself. Like Patrice said, he would only allow himself to love someone else at a …
/r/askTRP23/10/16 06:00 PM
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This is normal. In an effort to keep this short, all those progressive things people say about women are totally false. You're supposed to treat women like objects, be insensitive, be selfish, act like your better, and basically discriminate in your personal life. But NEVER TALK about it because the people that push this agenda include the legal system. Do plenty of reading, but if you find yourself still glued to TRP after a few weeks/months it can become poisonous. Find your Blue-Red balance, …
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:50 PM
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You act aloof. Don't text about nothing, but it's ok to respond to her texts about nothing around 1/2 to 2/3 of the time. It normally kills the interaction though, since people today are basically terrified of double-texting. This pulls you out of the validator zone. Don't count on her being available by the time you get back, but attempt to meet up anyway.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:44 PM
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Your give-a-fuck meter is too high then.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 05:08 PM
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Hey, got any plans this weekend? Let her blab a minute and tell her to come over Xday to hang out.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 04:57 PM
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A FB text would be too creepy and weird. Ask her to hang out at your place via text or face-to-face.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 04:46 PM
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Partnership, pussy, and children. If you don't desire any of those, MGTOW is the way to go.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 04:45 PM
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Found one that has long-term positive qualities in the middle of a stint where I promised myself I would spin until I die. My attraction to her was stronger than my will to remain in beast mode, so I took it as a sign. I was legitimately happy while spinning when I made this decision to drop the other two plates I had at the time.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 04:09 PM
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The correct response to a comfort test is not dread. This could damage your relationship. Basically, verbally remind her you value your time and wouldn't waste a second on a LTR if it wasn't serious. See my other post for more detail.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:50 PM
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No, he is correct. His LTR was comfort testing him, and the right answer is NOT dread. She's already expressing insecurity. Dread will just cause more insecurity and possibly destroy the relationship. Your problem here is assuming OP would cave to her demands, which is far too blue. Inaction is the right answer, or at most remind her that you value your time and if you thought you were wasting it you'd have been gone by now. A comfort test is much easier to deal with. It's an interesting way to …
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:47 PM
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Don't use a fake name. Make yourself laugh. If you start caring about other shit, it will work against what you're trying to do.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:39 PM
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Fuck a dark triad. They are a nuisance to society and their attachment to TRP embarrasses me. The downvotes are also embarrassing. Pedestalizing malicious, psychotic behavior? Are we getting overrun by children here in TRP?
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:38 PM
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You can be a 7-11 clerk and do it, so long as you become fit socially and physically. Lift, lift, lift.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:37 PM
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To add to /u/stickfiguresk post: 1) You sound like you're already complacent with your level of physical attraction. Keep lifting, or start if you aren't already. A 7 can always become an 8, and an 8 can always become a 9. The difference between them is astronomical. 2) Chase money, not tail. Main priorities are trade school, apprenticeship, college, a night job, etc. You can put yourself in places where women are going to be, but you don't need to put effort toward them so long as your prioriti…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:29 PM
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This is possible, but it's more likely she's just feeling the good dick effect. She's too attached, or OP doesn't seem attached enough from her POV. Either one of those can make a girl feel really emotional.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:08 PM
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She doesn't want to flirt or acknowledge you in front of someone in the group chat. She's attracted, but her social circle is holding her back.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:06 PM
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Gross. It'd be cheaper to lift like a madman for 6 months straight and Tinder a $5 coffee date. Or travel to another city to get one.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 09:27 PM
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Depends on the escort. Not all of them charge the same price. I've never had one, but I wouldn't pay over $100 for two hours and she'd have to be a 9.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:57 PM
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Think of it like a chemical reaction. If any cum/pre-cum touches fluid which leads to her pussy, your sperm are hard charging to that egg. That's why they say even condoms don't prevent 100%. It could slip off, or pre-cum could even drop down to the base of your dick and that could impregnate her if you're going deep.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:52 PM
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Because that's what many women do anyway once they hit 27+ or so.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 08:46 PM
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It just means your girl is more likely to feel comfortable, which means less insecurity, which means less attachment. You can make up for all of that fairly easily with an abundance attitude, but she will always be able to draw from the past that you valued her commitment before she could even say that she valued yours. This mistake not the end-all-be-all, but the foundation just won't be quite as strong if it was the other way around. Remember, men love women and women love children. She loves …
/r/askTRP21/10/16 04:38 PM
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Just be (the best version of) yourself. Assuming you read the sidebar. Flirt, push-pull, kino, and K-close. F-close would be a little extreme for a day date.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:53 AM
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Does no one read the sidebar? The gatekeeper of commitment is you, the man. If you're guarding a gate, you don't run up to a passerby asking them if they'd like to come inside. You check those that feel a need to get through the gate. It's her job to push the relationship. If a girl's desire to be in a relationship can't override her "shyness" as someone mentioned, then her desire isn't strong enough for you to promote her to LTR. I've met some attractive women I would never LTR. They had too st…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 06:02 PM
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You just lost a family member. Take your time healing. I've never even owned a dog and I can understand this.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:56 PM
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That's just 90% of people. Women wear it like a badge of honor, so they'll often even look for ways to find an issue with how they were raised.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:55 PM
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This. Your actions even tell her you were thirsty. OP, you need to chill. Stop trying to go NC over one night of bratty behavior. You don't need to go from hot to cold the instant you don't get sex. Go from hot to warm on first offense. If it becomes a pattern, that's when you kick it up a notch and act more ALOOF. You're male hamster is out of control. Chill.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 10:46 AM
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I agree completely, and the analysts who support Trump did a good job of bringing this up tonight in their post-debate. Political correctness is the real star of the show, and it's used to deflect criticisms against any demographic except straight white males who aren't veterans or handicapped (SWMWAVOH). Hillary is an enabler to this line of poisonous thinking, and when she's elected things will only get worse. The one candidate who treats Americans equally is Trump. He slanders and praises bla…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 03:58 AM
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That's fine if you're interested in her/them and willing to spend the time. As long as you are getting what you want and feel she isn't using sex as a currency, nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:53 PM
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Yes, the idea is to find a woman that is clearly attracted to you, and you use your time with her to screen her. You gotta make sure she's able to compliment your life and she's someone you can picture long term. Low N-count or not, you have to (attempt to) escalate anyway. Otherwise you're just taking her at her word.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:27 PM
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Nope. Even though male-male hangouts I will confirm. We think in terms of time. We don't want to waste time. Girls don't think that way. They see confirmation as a form of neediness more often than not, since they barely know you.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:54 AM
1

What are your study methods? You told us how long, but now how. People learn in different ways. Reading, highlighting, rewriting, typing, flash cards, etc.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:38 AM
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Lol. Yes. If you're making out with her, give her a firm double-handed ass squeeze and tell her to come to your place. "And do what?" "Whatever we want to do." Bang.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 06:10 AM
2

Always assume attraction if she is making out with you. Wtf?
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:49 AM
2

Chase money, not tail. Tail will find you.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:47 AM
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A week before is a bit too long for an average date. And the more attractive the girl, the shorter her attention span. If I'm trying to set up a bar date, I'm looking three days ahead MAX. If she doesn't confirm a few hours prior, I'll start looking for a backup plan by seeing what other people are up to. I'll give her a fair shot and go to the place we agreed to meet, and if she doesn't show it's a hard next. Hasn't happened to me yet, but I've also not dated 100's of women. The backup plan and…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:45 AM
3

Np. There are three outcomes to your cycle of dread. She'll think, "Oh, he's pulling away from me. I have to be likable again because I don't want him to leave me." (IDEAL) Or she'll think, "Oh, he's pulling away from me. I need to tell him how this makes me feel. He needs to understand how he's supposed to act, so I'll teach him." (DOWNPLAY/IGNORE) Or she'll think, "Oh, he's pulling away from me. Why is he being an asshole? Shame on him. I'll just find someone else." (IGNORE) You have to truly …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:32 AM
1

It's never "one time". It's like Pringles. Once you pop, you can't stop.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:07 AM
2

No since you don't live together, don't immediately respond if she acts pissy. Endure the shit night (sucks, but it's necessary to avoid seeming like you're throwing a tantrum) and react another day by canceling future plans. For example, let's say she acts up when you hang out tomorrow. Make fun of her bad mood, laugh at her, etc. You're able to reverse her mood. She leaves thinking you have plans the next day. Next day comes, shoot her a text that says "we'll hang tomorrow instead". Repeat thi…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:04 AM
1

I'm willing to bet they don't have as much power as you think they do. You think a one-month stint is enough to determine your entire career outlook? This reads as if your professor(s) used scare tactics on students to make sure you don't slack off. I have an idea of what I'd do in a female-dominated work center, but would rather hear from someone with experience.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:51 AM
4

Huh? What's she doing wrong? What were you doing wrong? Don't fix it if it ain't broke.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 04:32 AM
1

Just try to convince them you're a "nice guy". Say you took your grandma to church just last week. A&A.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:59 AM
3

Your answer is in your question. The reason she doesn't like you is because you think you need her to like you. She can probably tell by your body language and kiss-ass jokes. Stop giving so many fucks about what she thinks. That doesn't mean disrespect her, it means do your job and use her when you need a boss's input. Who gives a fuck if she doesn't like you? What the other guy has going for him are probably his looks and confidence. Work on yourself and you'll be in those shoes some day.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:52 AM
2

How old are you? Best thing you can do is move out and start your own life away from them.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:48 AM
2

No, because then you'd be negotiating desire and going with a nuclear ultimatum. Since she's so secure in the relationship that she feels she can be moody whenever she wants, you can apply a little dread next time she acts up. For instance, if you hear sighs and her stomping around when she gets home (assuming you cohabitate), whip your phone out and have a buddy meet you at a bar or gym to shoot the shit. Be gone for hours, no contact until you get home. If you don't cohabitate, let the night g…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:42 AM
2

If he's really that pathetic, she will see it eventually. All that matters is her perception right now. He's probably the only one in her college classes that had the balls to hit on her. He might also get bonus points for treating her like shit when no one's around.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:28 AM
1

Do you have a girlfriend? I lie and say no. Are you seeing someone/other girls? I A&A and say I see girls every day, at work, on the road, etc. Lame joke, but it's what I do.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:24 AM
1

XV. Maintain your state control You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. She will not drag you into her chaos or uproot you. When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over her. This is her subconscious attempt to pull you into her fr…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:16 AM
-2

I think masculine women are broken in some way. They could be raised by parents and peers who believe treating a woman equally means treating them like a man. So they adapt manly traits. They could be making incorrect assumptions about their own sexuality. They try to become what they're attracted to. So they adapt manly traits. They could be LGBT. So they adapt manly traits. In this story, this one doesn't seem to be the case.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:03 AM
3

DWTFYWTD Anyone know the acronym?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:21 PM
8

Do some reading on Captain/First Mate relationships.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:40 PM
15

Same, same, same, same, and same. Only difference is my coffee isn't during the mornings.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 05:40 PM
1

Better quality in my area at least, doesn't charge you, and forces women to choose where it's much easier to assume attraction. A Tinder swipe has too many times gone inactive from what I've seen. On Bumble it forces them to chat or you disappear from their list. Tinder gives you like 20 swipes per day, Bumble is infinite.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:50 PM
12

No homo, but you just haven't found the right guy friend yet. I have like 400 acquaintances, and 3 guys I can call a friend. And as you break away from school, it gets harder. The submissive personality comes from your childhood. You can't break that overnight, just like you can't adapt TRP overnight. The problem here was you took down notes for TRP, but you didn't change your mindset. You submitted to her and let her take care of you. You let her prop you up. As you get back in the Tinder game …
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:13 PM
13

Honestly, "chubby" and "7" don't belong in the same sentence. She sounds like a 6 tops. And yeah; you made her feel bad, so in her eyes you're a bad person, mean, a jerk, etc.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:04 PM
2

Paraphrasing this quote: "Love is the feeling you get that makes all of life's problems seem small." She's not swooning anymore. You can power through the tough times and tolerate the comfort she's going to demand, or peace out.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 05:48 AM
8

She's fantasizing about being on her own. You're gonna have to nudge her in that direction now.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 04:15 AM
1

Nope, don't ever admit it's a game or you lose.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 07:32 PM
4

It's mostly a post-wall fad.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 07:32 PM
2

That's where my buddy is. He says he used to crush it, and I believe him. It's just he lost 90% of his drive to do better. He wants more again, but he doesn't want to do more. He got comfortable.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 07:15 PM
2

Dude just take a short break. One month where you just handle the basics like lifting and career day-to-day shit. Use that time to sort your life out and reassess what you think you need. Don't just do shit to do shit or you won't believe in your own goals.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:38 PM
1

Make her work the meat and two veg. Dick and balls.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:31 PM
1

Shut off or dim the lights next time. If you can get hard in the dark, it means you have a negative self body image because you know she can't see you. You gotta realize, people can tell if you have a negative image. A confident fatass dude is way hotter than a coy, unconfident Ryan Gosling. Also make sure she's not JUST working the shaft. I can't even get hard off that anymore.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:22 PM
1

I'd let her have her verbal judo with her friends, but make her pay in the bedroom. I'd make her tell me she's my sex toy, she's my piece of ass, and/or exists to suck my cock. Deep down she should know where she stands. So those comments should be amusing to you. Maybe this is why I think it's silly. I wouldn't be able to imagine my gf actually believing that if she said it out loud. She knows she's my bitch.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 02:07 PM
2

You worry too much about what she thinks. Do you have a negative self body image?
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:58 PM
1

Really? Dick has no value. For yours to have value to her is a huge compliment.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:51 PM
2

Something about your first communication was off, but you don't have enough details here. Present it like you would present a date: "you free X night?" "meet me, X-bar @ 9 for a drink" It doesn't say bring your friends, and it doesn't say meet "us". It's 100% clear. If she pushes that friends angle, tell her no thanks and go soft no contact until she explicitly states it will be just you and her. Don't worry about calling her out for the last shit show. It would be hard to spin that in a positiv…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:50 PM
1

Roger that. I always try to get a sense of the subtext, but it seems I'm off today.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:44 PM
1

TRP needs boots on the ground out there. I think these stats say a lot about the average Japanese man.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:42 PM
1

I'm reading between the lines. OP is talking about how she's "not into hookups". She's likely also a "special snowflake".
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:38 PM
15

Soft next. She didn't do anything wrong. She's just oblivious and doesn't seem to have romantic interest in you. If she hits you up, grab drinks together again. If she reaches for her phone to invite others out again, bow out gracefully and resort to you backup plan for the night.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:23 PM
-41

Yup, she's not a radfem. That's all that matters. Radfems are the only non-fuckables. Feminists can go either way. This girl seems like she just likes the idea of women fighting together for a common cause. She doesn't actually crave respect. Hope OP isn't buying that shit. Women's studies is a fast track to radicalization, so remaining vigilant is perfect advice.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:18 PM
4

Read the sidebar on oneitus. You're developing this, or you may already have it. Second, you have to lean in for the kiss. It's literally a two-second action at first. That's it. If she's not making eye contact, use your words: "come here/come closer". She is like other girls. She is exactly like them. Don't be so foolish.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 01:12 PM
15

"Drama makes for the best content."
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 12:21 PM
1

Goes both ways. Think men's suicide rate.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 12:21 PM
1

90% of them just want to take care of their drunk friend, stuff their faces, take a huge shit, and go to sleep at that point. That leaves you with 10% of the fuglies who wanted to get some dick, but couldn't. The cream of the crop is gone by 1AM in my area.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 10:22 AM
2

You're just thrown off by the use of the word "boy". Just don't be a boy and you're fine. If she starts calling you a boy, then you can lay down some verbal smackdown on her.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 10:17 AM
13

Gave her no plausible deniability. Should have went with "movie-with-a-stranger-day" or something less convicting. Strong game though. Keep at it.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 10:13 AM
7

This is also totally true.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 10:11 AM
10

They've mostly either heard from friends to wait 2-3 days, or they've been burned by Chads who have taught them not to be so naive. Lots of girls really put themselves out there for Chad only to get shut the fuck down. They normally lose a good chunk of feminine energy after that happens. The more Chads that run through them, the more jaded and cold they become.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 10:09 AM
3

Yeah, fuck her like a ragdoll.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:59 AM
1

Prob herpes. Everyone got herpes dawg. Welcome aboard. They're harmless.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:58 AM
2

Remain nonjudgemental and patient. Try again.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 11:44 PM
1

Part of me wonders why... Because now they're interested in fucking you. It's really no deeper than that. "Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power."
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:46 PM
1

Keep trying, but don't be forceful. It's incest, but only under the context of MFF--not FMF (where the male is the center of attention). Are you leading situations where it's just the three of you together? Or is this just fantasy talk between you and your girl?
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:42 PM
1

Yeah, sometimes even if they're into you they'll panic and say no. Some have plans already. Some can be attracted and still have a boyfriend. Tons of reasons not to jump into an ad-hoc date.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:40 PM
1

Agree to disagree. Wearing a ring will cause more risk (drama) than reward, and will still push OP to lie or at least appear as if he's lying. To top it off, he throws away roughly half of the litter to pick from.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:14 PM
4

You have some mental blocks. What helps me if I have these, is I'll start thinking about what I have to do AFTER I fuck her. You only have so much time, so get your mind past the event and focus on the grocery shopping you gotta do in the morning, or buddy who you told you'd help him then next day. It helps you realize that moment isn't that important. It's just an activity that will end before you move on to other shit.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:06 PM
1

He will lose at least 50% of the attention he's getting now if he wears a ring. With a ring, you introduce morals to the situation. Girls get severely shamed for being a home wrecker.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:03 PM
1

He will lose at least 50% of the attention he's getting now if he wears a ring. With a ring, you introduce morals to the situation. Girls get severely shamed for being a home wrecker.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:03 PM
1

This is the best one. When dating casually non-married, you don't talk about the other girls you're fucking anyway. It's none of their damn business. The girls that are throwing themselves at OP are not the types of girls that are exclusively looking for marriage. When they find out he's married, they start to get moral interference. Girls hate being home wreckers, they get shamed for it. Because of this, don't tell them you're married.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:01 PM
3

You have job interviews? Take those bitches for a walk after you get the coffee. Flirt.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 07:54 PM
9

Don't degrade yourself to be funny. It may be funny, but it subtlety highlights your insecurities to everyone in earshot. She makes more money and knows more people. Who gives a shit? Your presence makes her want to drop her panties, and she's only a 6. If you want to get close to the angle of highlighting her lifestyle compared to yours, tell her maybe someday you'll live on her couch while she goes out to make that money for you everyday. It's a funny way to make her think about what she actua…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 07:46 PM
4

Escalate proper. ABC, Always Be Closing. Big hug, make her buy you the first drink, ask her about her bracelet while you grab her tiny wrist to look at it, disqualify her taste in alcohol, "I can't be getting too close to someone who likes X, that's so weird", make some physical distance (walk around, let her follow), call her in close for a kiss. That can all be done within the first 30 min. Have a place to bang and you're good to take her there within a couple hours unless you care too much ab…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 07:43 PM
2

Oh, ok. Well there are certainly a lot of negative attitudes in our male space here, but it's not anything I can't ignore. As for the fakes, why waste time targeting them? Spend that energy targeting things that matter.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:37 AM
2

I don't feel the need to create a science experiment for strangers in an online forum. I return to this aperiodically because it's (a) the truth and (b) it works. I guess you'll just have to be in the dark on this one. Or get off your lazy, skeptical ass and try it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:16 AM
1

This makes me feel the same way I felt when I watched Neighbors 2 a few weeks ago. Fuck this.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 07:53 AM
2

I've seen a little bit of this. Girls respond much better while I'm cutting vs bulking. Glamour muscles are also all they seem to be interested in.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 07:50 AM
6

Well they're not drawn to a man because of their lack of accountability. They want a winner, and winners take what's theirs without apology. Rough sex comes from a place of raw desire.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:42 AM
0

He's going to run straight to her and ask about you. You can't unplug someone unless they want to be unplugged.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 06:58 AM
2

Yes. Think Patrice O'neil.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 06:45 AM
4

No need to even leave Tinder. Go straight to the coffee shop. She compartmentalized you into her validation app. Text negging is a shit strategy.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 07:06 AM
17

Spend lots of time at her place, enough to where you get easy access to the iPad and her phone and delete that shit. Or play the beta game. Be the nicest fucking doormat you can for a few months. She'll feel bad for wanting to "break your heart" in no time. Be apologetic, cry, whine about work, pretty much all the bad shit.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:51 AM
2

No reason to go NC. She didn't do anything wrong. You need to arrange another date, and escalate properly next time.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:46 AM
1

Like Patrice said, always be mentally prepared to be able to take the L within 30 minutes. Mentally approach the date with this, it's fine if she wants to break up at any time. For planning, just think ahead more. Get ice cream, walk around, and think of a place to take her afterward. The last step is the one you've been missing. If you don't have a place you can bang, tell her. "I don't have anywhere for us to go, let's go to yours and watch a movie."
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:41 AM
5

Your best response is delete Snapchat. Snap is an orbiter's paradise. Tell her to text you via Tinder instead.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:23 AM
2

Women have ADD. Strike while the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:22 AM
4

Yes, feel bad about it and then get over it. Winners are winners not because they never fail, but because they never quit. You're going to keep making mistakes, just keep learning from them.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:19 AM
5

What's the ages? You're giving her what she needs? The primary purpose of these traits is to give yourself what you need. You're approaching TRP as if it's PUA. You carry traits that serve you. If she doesn't like them, she can fuck off. It didn't sound like you had a plan for the end of the night, so this is your fault. You can't wait around for things to "just happen". That's what women do. Men do the work.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 06:00 AM
0

I'm torn. It's between attempting to wake people up as to what's going on, for the better world future... or watching the world burn, keeping others from mimicking what works because I've adopted this as my own.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 07:53 PM
2

You're 100% right, but don't give this guy actual answers. He's not looking for answers.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 07:08 PM
2

You're 100% right, but don't give this guy actual answers. He's not looking for answers.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 07:08 PM
5

Blam. She was looking for a reason.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 01:40 AM
6

I lie about age by +/- 3 years all the time on reddit. Anti-doxx measures bro.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 01:39 AM
3

You're paying for her to leave.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 04:42 AM
1

Nope
/r/askTRP02/10/16 04:41 AM
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