Girls at Bars?

Machopsdontcry · 2016-10-18T05:36:04+00:00

The bar isn't the place where you're likely to meet a potential ltr. Pick up some plates, fuck them well and they're bound to stick around.

come on lol if a girl's making out with you she's dtf. Give her what she wants, you both know what the deal is

jjfast666 · 2016-10-18T05:49:16+00:00

Always assume attraction if she is making out with you. Wtf?

Willkuer_ · 2016-10-18T07:37:55+00:00

Mystery method describes this situation as 'buyers remorse'. You escalated faster than you built comfort. She feels slutty (and shows it to the whole bar) and thinks you are not a proper candidate. Although there is attraction you don't provide any comfort.

After you separated all attraction is gone as you are not physically available anymore. She starts thinking whether you are a reliable cave man. You are not. She doesn't answer texts/is cold.

If you trust MM is your choice but your situation sounds like an example from his book.

1Maverick1 · 2016-10-18T13:26:08+00:00

That's not always true. I think she'll bang it out with some dude when it's almost time to leave for home. In the meantime she's running around the bar making out with dudes trying to get as much attention as possible. Women like that shit and if you feed it to them you shouldn't be too led on. I've had bitches come up and rub their ass on my shit and once the song is over they are already looking for another dude to do the same thing too. This is why I have a hard time respecting certain women.

JamesSkepp · 2016-10-18T14:10:21+00:00

I'll make out with women at the bar often, but the next day or even sometimes the same night they go aloof.

You're triggering ASD (moving too fast, no comfort, no genuine connection).
You're triggering ASD (social situation, she fears being percieved as slut by her peers).
Fast and easy makeouts are not uncommon in nightgame. They mean nothing by themselves. Approach a random person give them 5$. Does that make you someone important in their life?
Makeouts are tension relievers, not builders. It's a consolation prize if you can't pull her home.

Title	Girls at Bars?
Author	shadada
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	October 18, 2016 5:21 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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