Help Breaking Up?

ouselesso · 2016-10-27T19:55:59+00:00

I never held frame around her, at all whatsoever -- wanting to fuck made me ignore all 3 years of being on redpill and I am pretty ashamed

I highly doubt you were independent and working on yourself for 3 years to be blind sided by obvious red flags

Put the pussy on a pedestal

Found your problem.

Now she wants me to meet the parents, and I'm literally putting up a facade that things are okay, but I don't know how to break up with her without it being a fucking trainwreck, because in all honesty I stuck my dick in crazy

Sooo... you're leading her on and she's taking your word for it and now you're in a situation... wonder why you're having problems... hrmm..

Dude just ghost her. Or the very minimum demote her to a plate and treat her as such. Quit being a bitch

jjfast666 · 2016-10-27T19:56:19+00:00

You're scared to hurt her feelings. Get it through your head that her feelings aren't your concern anymore. Girls her age can hop on a new dick the next day and be just fine.

cashcow1 · 2016-10-27T20:48:03+00:00

You can't save women like this. They need Jesus.

Get the fuck out before you get stabbed, or accused of rape. Even if you have to do it like a bitch, and text her or something, that's better than being assraped for a decade in prison.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2016-10-27T21:03:08+00:00

That's prime candidate material for an "accidental" pregnancy- especially if she picks up on you thinking about bailing. I agree that trying to have an in person break up discussion with this one is probably more risk than benefit of saving face, or trying to make it easier/nicer to her.

You're going to be the worst sack of shit in the world to hear her tell it anyway, no matter how nice you try to be. I'm casting vote for text or phone call, with good alibi that you haven't been near her.

Edit: autocorr... F up.

Lumberjack1234 · 2016-10-27T21:10:16+00:00

Something tells me you are just as unstable as she is. I mean... this isn't even a trp question. The most blue pill guy would tell you the same thing, you are not compatible, dump her.

A "this isn't working out, we are breaking up" message would suffice. But you make from this an entire drama where she is the evil monster who has you trapped.

Red_Invictus · 2016-10-27T21:09:25+00:00

Since nobody else has mentioned it, you should do yourself a preemptive favor and record the conversation when you decide you're ready to go down with the talk.

You are being honest with us and yourself about how potentially batshit crazy she is, yes. Record it so that you can protect yourself, if need be. The last thing you need is false rape accusations or some ridiculous drama about why you two broke up. Record it, and stuff it away somewhere safe and where you won't be tempted to replay it.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2016-10-27T21:13:55+00:00

Oh, and if you do, do it via phone/text, have your phone ready to be recording at least audio, or hidden(hanging out of pocket, I.e.) catching video of her if she shows up, and bum rushes you somewhere to talk about it in person.

rubenbrasil · 2016-10-27T21:59:25+00:00

"This isnt going to work out, i need to focus on myself. Grades arent too well" Thats it. Dont need to tell her shes crazy or something that will trigger her.

Dont ever contact her again. She will probably try to guilt trip you with missed calls and lots of text messages that will try to manipulate you. They will eventually stop textin you after a few weeks.

You are really overthinking this. This is childs play considered to what some bitches do. GL

quicklogaccount · 2016-10-27T23:59:19+00:00

Man, take a line from the Blue Pill book of break ups and use it. "We're not working out" is great, but have a SHORT, CONCISE and congruent explanation ready ready because she might challenge you, and it'll help preserving your NAME.
(Record it, wada wada, you know, she's crazy.)

Stick to the line, don't explain yourself anything you haven't thought beforehand, DON'T EVER MENTION HER SHORTCOMINGS. Don't bet on her feelings (I know it's not working for you too).

"Don't stick your dick in crazy" is easier said than done, right? Don't be hard on yourself because you did, a lot of types of "crazy" know really well how to seduce and fuck like porn stars. But still, don't do it again.

the_alpha_phoenix · 2016-10-28T03:44:17+00:00

She has many of the signs of a BPD woman.

Danger, Will Robinson!

StopSpyingOnMe25 · 2016-10-28T16:04:09+00:00

You know you have to break up with her, otherwise you'll be very very miserable. You want to know how to break up? Tell her: I want to break up with you. Say it. She will argue with you and she'll use her manipulation tactics and she'll make herself the victim and all that shit, and she'll definitely make you feel sorry. But you have have to do it, don't give in. Tell her it's over. And you know what will happen? After a short time or even the day after the break up she'll hop on another dick. In fact, she'll suck so many dicks and have so much sex you can't even imagine. Why? She doesn't care about you. Get that in your head. She's bad. Also, before you break up with her fuck this crazy whore very very rough so you have at least something good taken out of it.

Title	Help Breaking Up?
Author	UndecidedThrownaway
Upvotes	5
Comments	18
Date	October 27, 2016 7:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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