Why aren't we cheating?

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-03-20T19:52:23+00:00

Trying to fabricate a double life and maintain multiple standards is a game for women and betas. In my opinion it really boils down to a scarcity mentality.

If you want to fuck multiple people, trying to keep it a secret is generally a waste of time. The fact that you can get many women to sleep with you, and don't try to hide it, enhances your SMV as a man. Lying about it says you're desperate in some way, and you're a follower of trends, not a setter of them. Remember that people with abundant power and status relish their attractiveness to the opposite sex, and express it fully without fear of consequences. Women crave this kind of power more than anything, and dream about being with a man who has it.

htbf · 2017-03-20T20:13:14+00:00

Why not just drop the GF or make her a plate ? I can't see any benefit to cheating given how much hiding and lying I will have to do. I'd rather be single and spin plates.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-03-20T20:04:30+00:00

You can cheat if you want. It depends on what kind of guy you want to be.

Just know you will be inviting issues into your life. Eventually someone will find out and you'll never know when.

PBRistasty · 2017-03-20T22:04:53+00:00

Your asking the wrong questions.

Why am I in a monogamous relationship.

Why did I voluntarily limit my options(give up my plates)?

Why isnt she into whatever I like in the sack?

Why am I not cheating is a question a man with options doesnt ask himself, whether he's in a monogamous relationship or an open one.

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-20T20:52:18+00:00

Why am I not cheating?

There are two ways for you to cheat. You can be as a chick, "it doesn't count", hamster it out, or you can be a man about it and do it while aware that you are breaking a contract.
You probably can't hamster it and doesn't want to break the contract. That's why you're not cheating.
This, of course, is considering that you CAN cheat. Many guys can't cheat because they're anxious as fuck to approach, fear the success, failure, or something else.

This is why there are so many posts about trusting your instincts and maintaining abundance.

We should stop the trust your instincts bullshit. This is the same as saying "get a hamster".
This isn't the same as saying your instincts are telling you to do the wrong thing. They're probably right, those posters should break up with her, but their awareness about the reason is zero. One should know oneself, not flow with the emotions.

Thoughts?

Most cheaters are using the relationship as crutches, either for emotional support or some granted sex, because they dwell in scarcity of either one. So, it's bullshit. Just end the relationship and be free to get what you want.
The only time I actually encourage cheating is for people abused by their partners. Those folks need the confidence they can get someone else, get some abundance.

For the first time ever attractive women who know I have a GF are making themselves available.

One of two things is taking place.

Your girlfriend's approval made you valuable enough to be flirted at for validation;
Your status made you non threatening and women are comfortable being close to you, but you were always attractive enough for them to want to.

I'm sorry if it's the first. You need to put a lot of work there. If it's the second, you probably should think of breaking up before you start to resent your girlfriend, you have way too many ways that lead to that.

MrTyler_Durden · 2017-03-20T20:14:42+00:00

I just don't see a reason for cheating. If you want to bang multiple women then do it. Get a bunch of plates in rotation and drown yourself in pussy. But if if you want something more serious then find yourself a good girl and commit. If you want to go back to banging multiple girls then breakup and go get that dick in. Simple as that.

Title	Why aren't we cheating?
Author	AwakenedSovereign
Upvotes	0
Comments	12
Date	March 20, 2017 7:37 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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