Meeting girls at church?

mallardcove · 2017-05-07T11:41:10+00:00

I go to church every Sunday. Getting ready to go right now. Let me give you some advice.

Don't go to church with your mission being to game and pick up women. Do not do that. The women will be able to smell that on you and it will be apparent. Go to church to go to church, go for the reason people go - to worship

Now I have had success with women at church. It doesn't take much to be in the Top 10% of men at a church because most guys there are brainwashed blue pillers. I used to be one of them - I thought the way to win over women was to be an ultra ultra ultra nice guy and show women how mega of a christian good guy I am. Never worked. If you lift and dress well and stay low body fat you will stand out like a sore thumb, in a good way. You will get loads of female attention and get eye banged throughout the service. Makes approaching ultra easy.

In general the same rules apply. Hold frame. Don't overinvest. Don't be a nice guy(but don't be an asshole either). Be stoic, talk to multiple girls. You know the drill. You will get shit tested. The only differences here is that you have to be a bit more subtle. Women hate feeling like sluts, and they really hate feeling like one at church. Their guards will be up even more, so you have to be that much better at the plausible deniability game.

You want to know a shortcut? This is what I did at my last church and got 3 plates out of, one of which was an HB9 who I would have LTR'd if I wasn't moving to another state. Volunteer to do shit on Sundays. Whether it be hold doors, make and hand out coffee, etc., anything that gets you in a position where you will be greeting, talking to and shaking the hands of many. Personally I held doors on Sunday Morning. That meant every week I got to introduce myself to everyone and shake their hand and learn their names without it being weird. I got to learn which women were available and which were married. MARRIED WOMEN ARE OFF LIMITS AT CHURCH - keep this in mind, but women with boyfriends are fair game because most of the time their boyfriends are blue pilled mangina types.

Anyway after a month or so of holding doors you get to know many women by name and can go up to them and talk with them without it being weird or creepy at all. You can still approach and talk to women you haven't met at church, because in a church setting everyone is friendly so no one will think its creepy, but its a lot easier to do if you have shook their hand a few times and know their name. Not just that, but if your SMV is high enough a lot of these women will come to you. That's generally how it worked for me, I didn't even have to approach. From there its like shooting fish in a barrel.

Bongoringo144 · 2017-05-07T08:03:31+00:00

There are usually youth groups.

That being said, you shouldn't be going to church to pick up girls. Go to church if you find it interests you.

You shouldn't be wasting your time doing anything if the only reason is to pick up chicks. Especially if you don't enjoy it.

refusewool · 2017-05-07T09:37:05+00:00

Who knows, it could pay off but it's a big potential time sink. If you want to integrate and meet new people in your area, then go for it. But, as someone else said, doing it purely for a lay can be a big waste of time (unless you enjoy it). The time could be better spent working on yourself (career, reading, gym) or taking part in hobbies you actually enjoy which you could potentially meet girls through anyway.

KumonRoguing · 2017-05-07T09:20:39+00:00

Going to a church where you are connected in the community is a really good hookup. Older women will introduce you to grand daughters. If you were younger I'd suggest youth group. I say go for it. Source: plenty of church action.

AssessingReality · 2017-05-07T14:14:06+00:00

I can't stand church. That being said, my last ex was a devout church girl. I didn't meet her at church though.

When picking up church girls always be wary of psychopathy. The basic premise of church breeds crazy and a lack of logical thought.

If you really want to get your dick wet go for it, don't expect it to last.

FUCK_FRUIT · 2017-05-07T14:44:59+00:00

pickup on HARD mode. I love it. Good luck!

Title	Meeting girls at church?
Author	Jimmypickles
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Date	May 7, 2017 7:50 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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