Had posted about a situation about a month ago - one of the responses I got listed all of the red flags that were applicable to my case - they included 1) Online only. - "met" woman online. Hadn't met in person. 2) Bar Job - she was a server in a popular club/lounge in SoCal. Also told me that she had "fake wedding ring" that she wore at work to discourage guys from hitting on her 3) Single Mom - had never been married 4) Two kids - both under 10 y.o. 5) Complains about baby daddy - did this frequently and told me often about how he didn't carry his weight when it came to supporting his kids 6) Things got so regular - would "schedule" time to text/speak on the phone - disrupted my regular/work schedule

Went along with things for another month, and ultimately found that another dude was posting on FB that he was in a relationship with her. Best part was that she tried to explain that to me (not going to insult anyone's intelligence by getting into that BS).

Just wanted to post this for other guys - dude's on here definitely tried to warn me about these and I didn't heed the warnings - would strongly encourage other guys to pay attention to red flags - being lied to by others is rough, but lying to yourself is really bad.