Telling people my secrets?

failingtheturingtest · 2017-10-09T03:35:24+00:00

If you have a habit of doing something that you don't want to do, get some fucking discipline.

Repeat after me "No one gives a fuck what's going on in my life".
This is a fact. Some people feel good pretending they care. Some have to care by default (Hi Mum!). Some people listen just long enough that they can talk about their own shit. But the truth is, you're very unimportant.

It's quite likely that you don't have anything in your life worth talking about. But you feel the need to be interesting. So to keep interest, you blurt out 'secrets' (note: they aren't secrets because you tell people. Also, they're not as interesting as you think).
Find interesting things to do. Go to an art exhibition, a motocross event, or a strip club. Next time you talk to someone, you can ask their opinion on the Picaso exhibit, the change in MotoX from underground to alternate to main-stream to forgotten, if strippers really are more attractive with gigantic platform shoes or if they would look better if they weren't wobbling about like a giraffe.
When you have interesting shit going on in your life, you realise no one needs to know your secrets.

iwannagrowpls · 2017-10-09T03:21:46+00:00

I mean if it's something that brings up anxiety for you, I would say you will learn gradually not to bring it up. You just need to be able to recognize this anxiety.

Always remember, peeople don't need to know your business. It's always good to be able to stay a little mysterious.

gerend24 · 2017-10-09T01:11:28+00:00

give example

LordThunderbolt · 2017-10-09T01:12:48+00:00

Do you lift?

DebonairD · 2017-10-09T01:50:03+00:00

Sounds like you just talk too damn much lol. Just start telling yourself to "be quiet". You wont become completely quiet because it's not in your nature but it will make you slow down a lot more

Triadis3 · 2017-10-09T05:00:00+00:00

Shut up.

Title	Telling people my secrets?
Author	WetWeatherMaster
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	October 9, 2017 12:53 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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