I’ve been on trp for 2 years. Late to start all this with women, am 31 now. Have gotten laid with not many girls, first date was when I was 28.

Anyway, I have generally been sucking on the majority of my dates. I’ve been called a nice guy by the last girl I just went on a date with. We went to a bar and she was sitting to the side of my in another chair. Too far away to kino. I could have got her to sit next to me perhaps.

I did ask if she wanted to have another drink at my place at the end of the date, but since I didn’t escalate and it was late she had to go.

She txts me that we’re not a match and that I’m a nice guy after I try to set up the next date.

I actually don’t know how to not be nice. I don’t pay for drinks or anything but I’ve heard that from a few girls.

I have had one ONS last year and 1 tinder hookup where I invited her over last year. I felt a bit more attractive then with my pics, and having moved out from home. I’ve been lifting for 2 years but have made only 1 friend. I basically don’t have any close friends anymore as one became mentally ill and the other moved.

Not sure where I’m going with my career as a software dev. Thinking of moving country.

I think though that my smv isn’t where it could be. All this reading trp and trying to apply them isn’t really working. Still a nice guy with awkward social skills.

I guess this is more of a rant than a question, but not sure what to do.