Earlier in my posts, I mentioned that I was going on a date. Ehh, it turned into a flake. I don't think I am going to run after this girl anymore. Next unless she gives me the eye contact or speaks again when I see her. Right now not really interested in running after her at all. Now I started to analyze several things;

(one) cold approaching and getting the number does not work. Like really, the odds must be in your favor. Better do daybang step by step. This is more successful. Just don't be the beta who talks to the chick for 3 months and still couldn't get laid. Eye contact and then going for the kill, "hey I find you cute blah blah" has the probability that you'll meet her again on a date will be in 2 million years.

(two) If a girl doesn't respond at all on text-thats not a good sign. I went with the flow and carried on, but it was pointless. I did the wrong thing and sent her a message when she flaked on me, "it was tasty coffee blah blah"... In hindsight, 20/20 I should have just not messaged at all or said how are you today? Total newbie mistake.

(third) Always text a few hours before the date the same day. I didn't it and maybe this is why, it bit me in the ass.

So question is, should you ignore if you got flaked or mention the event/say "wish you were here" after being flaked in a text message?