Asking explicitly for nudes?

JerryMullin1978 · 2018-04-24T15:11:42+00:00

I’ve usually gotten them because we’re texting and it turns into sexting. I’ll let her know I wish I had better pics and how much I want her. I also send her pics.

Me: I want you in my bed right now. Her: Yeah, I want to see you. Me: I wish you weren’t so far away. And I’ll have is your FB pics to look at ha. Damn, I wish I had some sexy pics of you. Her: Hold on...

Then she starts sending pics.

Insendi · 2018-04-24T15:09:31+00:00

Shouldn’t be doing that, just set up a time and fuck them.

[deleted] · 2018-04-24T18:27:13+00:00

Beta.

Unsolicited nudes are fine. Asking for nudes is beta.

LogicalWinner · 2018-04-24T21:18:41+00:00

Don't ask for anything.

Create a challenge for her that compels her to give them to you.

2gunsgetsome · 2018-04-24T16:14:23+00:00

If you have to ask, you shouldn't be getting them.

taking nude pictures or recording video while having sex

While she's enthusiastically fucking you (or clearly enjoying getting fucked from behind), say "OMG, you have to see what I can see. Gimme your phone!" Take a couple pictures or short videos with her phone.

The next few days, she'll find them, maybe send 'em to you if she has a sexy flashback.

Also, don't keep nudes. Just fuck more.

rayrayray1234 · 2018-04-24T17:12:30+00:00

all the nudes plates send , I’ve never asked for them. And they are the ones asking me to record them while we fuck. I also never sext them because well I don’t really need to?

You are most likely not leading the relationship correctly, she’s not filling in the feminine dynamic because you’re not filling in the masculine one

McVaghunter · 2018-04-24T16:45:27+00:00

What do you recommend for the next time?

Secret Video Recorder... I-I mean no, ew who does that?! Not me!

I'm against sexting in general, you shouldn't ask girls to send you nudes, they know you want to masturbate to them and that will make you look bad; girls don't want to fuck men who spend time masturbating.

As for the memories, you just ask the girl to take pictures or videos while fucking, most of them will agree especially if they don't show their faces. And if she says no then unfortunately there is nothing to do, especially that there are no apps to use on your phone to secretly record videos...

Title	Asking explicitly for nudes?
Author	The_Handsome_Penguin
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	April 24, 2018 2:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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