Got this message last night. Before sharing I’ll frame the scene.

This is a lower priority plate. I actually just hung out with her last week, so not like it’s been forever. She has initiated probably our last 3 meet ups. I never text her outside of logistics. Barely respond when she tries to text me dumb shit. She gives me zero shit tests and non stop comfort tests.

That said, she’s nice to have in the back pocket for when things with other plates aren’t going well. She gives me back rubs, cooks for me, all that shit. Prob a 7 on the looks scale. Personality meh as most are.

Anyway here’s the message:

“I just kinda feel like by this point you woulda known if this was going anywhere w me and I don't even know how I feel either so maybe it's just best if we don't hang anymore”

My goal would be to keep everything as is. Minimal effort, hang out once every two/three weeks when I need a quick nut. I have some ideas on how I’d respond, but curious to hear what some of you would say in this situation.