i read the gervais principle and articles at the forum and i do understand how important it is to understand the sub contest of the content but i always thought that this is kind of "weak" to go indirect about things.. ain't that much more attractive to speak about sexuality openly to a female? i did it before and the responses were criticizing or anger or shaming generally but overall every one of them developed a unique interest in me after being so direct and giving a fuck about the criticism. one of them initiated sex by herself.. she was the hottest chick i laid.

i always thought that because this indirect manner of communication is stealthy then it opens up much room to play stupid games and waste time and get confused etc while by being direct always keeps things clear and "either you in or you out" style so basically they have no power what so ever over a Straight talking dude..

what do you think?