gonna make it short: me and a girl had a thing, we dated almost 4 times a week for like 2 months, then no contact for 2 months, then 1 month ago we started hanging out again, but this time im making it scarce, once a week or so and I feel like shes distant.

Thing is, im wondering, if we hanged 4 or more times a week and she was fine every single time, but now shes distant and im tring to find a reason for it, maybe im losing frame? But then im acting as a high value male by being with her only when I can, thus once a week or so. Between that time we dont speak at all. I always text first. I feel like somethings missing, maybe a spike in emotions will do the trick? Like something different such as a random ass date with lots of fun?

So basically, should I keep seing her less, since she isnt reciprocating my forward moves, or how do I turn things around?