UPDATE: sidechick calling GF ugly

gjproflip · 2019-06-11T21:55:15+00:00

...and how she didn’t agree to be side chick.

Right away my GF messages me telling me that an account messaged her with text messages of me sexting another girl...

https://i.imgur.com/nfcm2U4.png

How do I handle this??? I want to burn my side chicks house down.

Second, your best option is to just block the side chick and don't interact with her anymore.

From there, you tell your girlfriend that it's true and either she can choose to stay with you or not, but if she decides to stay with you, then you don't want to hear anything else about it.

Do not, under any circumstances, bring up the side chick saying anything negative about your girlfriend in any way, shape or form.

In the future, just do the plates thing. If you're going to do an LTR, be upfront about not being interested in being monogamous to her (while you'll expect her to be monogamous to you). If you're high-value, women don't mind at all.

Dartleather · 2019-06-11T21:54:25+00:00

Sounds like you have 2 gf's. That was your first mistake. If you're going to be seeing multiple women, why have a gf in the first place?

Edit: I just read your other thread. Hahahaha

Terdmuffin · 2019-06-11T21:55:42+00:00

Time to reap the seeds you've been sowing. You can either deny it or own up to it. If you deny it best hope your ex side chick doesn't provide further proof. Sounds like you're not satisfied in your relationship anyways so maybe this is a good time to just move on.

Jabbermouth · 2019-06-11T22:01:19+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

You should be upfront from the getgo with potential “side chicks” in the future. Make sure they’re ok with it before making them a side chick.

Honestly your relationship is pretty fucked. She has proof you’ve been sexting other girls (text messages) and if you made sex tapes with her the you are doubly fucked. If I was in your position I would probably just downplay the texts, and try to make it seem like it’s a crazy person playing a prank.

Another option would be to come clean to your GF that you cheated. She may want to stay together regardless if you’re high enough SMV. Unlikely but god knows it’s happened before.

spiceb0ss · 2019-06-12T02:01:14+00:00

Dog i told u this exact thing was gonna happen in the last thread. You got what you deserved 🤦🏻‍♂️

RedSkeller · 2019-06-11T21:57:28+00:00

Deny deny deny. Text messages can easily be generated. Photos could easily be taken from online, videos of you fucking her could be any body. Delete all traces of your reddit account and wipe your facebook history and web browsing history. Make sure your google location services are off in case she snoops your phone to see where you were. Delete any Uber/Lyft receipts if you visited her. Cover your ass and deny everything. She realistically can't prove anything, and the worst thing you lose is your girlfriend - which you instantly will if you tell her the truth.

rbro1987 · 2019-06-12T03:50:19+00:00

Its gonna be a LOT of work to come back from this. But the best thing to do right now is nothing. Dont retaliate against the side chick. Rushing out to do damage control will only further validate this girls claims. Its clear that youre butthurt about the small dick comment, however if that was really an issue the sidechick wouldnt have kept sleeping w you and trying to promote herself. You hurt her pride, so now shes trying to hurt yours. The whole thing will blow over guaranteed. Just dont do anything that will pour gasoline on the flames.

Bruchibre · 2019-08-23T10:08:54+00:00

I hesitate between telling you to DENY EVERYTHING or to ACKNOWLEDGE AND BREAK UP.

Maybe you should recontact your side chick first and calm her down.

That was 2 months ago... what's the situation now?

Distractingyou · 2019-06-11T23:22:12+00:00

You fucked here by blocking her, to defuse the situation unblock your sidekick tell her you love her and you demoted your girlfriend to a plate, tell her the deal is you can upgrade her if she accepts a poli relationship while tell your real girlfriend that your first girlfriend is blackmailing you cause she is still angry that you broke with her

Title	UPDATE: sidechick calling GF ugly
Author	ineedhelp2847382
Upvotes	0
Comments	29
Date	June 11, 2019 9:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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